and not the usual ones that just unload on my face and leave.
2006-11-01 01:11:57 · 40 answers · asked by Abused Tampon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your looking too hard
2006-11-01 01:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by nodumby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop letting them unload on your face for one. You have to be patient. You will find him. But change the way you are with men may help. Don't let them use you. DOn't act eager to hop in the sag on the first date. Some guys will only go out with you assuming you are easy. If you change your normal patterns you will attract the right guy, instead of the users.
2006-11-01 01:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe loving who you are is a hell of a lot harder than just loving to unload on your face & leave
2006-11-01 01:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That questions deserves a conversation, rather than a quick one-liner....
If you're too quick and easy with giving up the goods, most guys will just use you and abuse you. Not knowing anything about you, I'd say you should not date for awhile, and decide you and what you want to be, and what kind of guy you want in your life.
Behind the bad boy image, there's usually a bad boy.
2006-11-01 01:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by Heath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let the guy you're doing know that sticking around for snuggles afterward is important to you. And also I've always found that leaping from the first kiss straight to bed too quickly is an instant romance-killer (at least for me anyway). I'd give it at least a couple of weeks between the first smooch and the bedroom.
2006-11-01 01:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by mick69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you mean by "unload"..sounds nasty but maybe you should slow down on the "unloading" and see people for who they are and let them see who you really are...it's not like guys are playing hide and seek...but guys do like easy targets...respect yourself...
2006-11-01 01:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you might wont to do is stop looking . just be yourself and the right man will find you. there are men out there that need more then just good looks . brains, love of life , over all happiness of the accomplishment that they have done..
so hold on there a man out there for you just wait and you will see
2006-11-01 01:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guys are hard to find...they are out there, don't give up girl
Ignore the people calling you a ho, nothing wrong with being a nympho that doesn't make you a ho. There is nothing wrong with loving sex all the time. You can want it all the time and still be faithful and be able to commit.
Don't change your screen name just people can't accept people who are different. forget them
2006-11-01 01:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we ask ourselves questions like these all the time,and at times hope for love seems too impossible but believe me when i say that love prevails above everything else and everyone will have their chance at it,if they learn to open up and see for themselves their inner beauty and find hope from within there.
don't fuss.the time will come,sooner or later.
2006-11-01 01:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you arent lookinig for those types of guys. be honest with yourself. there are plenty of good men out there, but women tend to go for the ones that wont really be good for them. instead, go for the quiet kinda shy guy who you probably havent payed much attention to.
2006-11-01 01:15:18 · answer #10 · answered by Little Black Riding Hood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...maybe because you don't love yourself and as a result settle for LOSERS. Grow a backbone and some self respect!
2006-11-01 01:13:33 · answer #11 · answered by Rwebgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋