Thing is we met over the summer. We started hanging out all the time but he had a long time girlfriend. He cheated on her with me. At first I knew it would only be a fling but then he started saying how he got attached to me and I really fell for him. When he would be with her, he'd call me (without her knowing) and he would do so many little things that had me thinking he really liked me. He broke up with her at the end of the summer. Supposedly, he did this because he didnt love her anymore and wanted to be with me. Only thing is, we're not in the same country now. n he spent the weekend with some friends, including his ex. Now he's all like this weekend put some doubts in my head. I really wanted this to work, he's a great guy, I love being with him. Now I dont know wat to do, should I just give up or try and keep him. And how? please help me!
2006-11-01 00:58:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't force him
2006-11-01 01:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is so clear cut and easy to answer.Dump him.I have had years of experience and this is going to end up with you being deeply hurt.Men who cheat in the first place will always cheat given the opportunity.Think of how you would feel a couple of years down the line and him cheating on you.It would crucify you.Walk away now with your head held high.Continue and it will end in tears.If you do stay with him remember what I have said when it all goes wrong.He is sneaky and a snake in the grass.You deserve better.Take care.
2006-11-01 01:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say but GET RID OF HIM. A study done a few years ago said 75% of men who leave a serious relationship for that "girl on the side" doesn’t last for longer than a year; and if you are dealing with a long distance relationship... Statistics are NOT in your favor.
2006-11-01 01:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by beau0021 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was also in a similar situation trust me girl....he's not interested. Sure he probably talks to you differently than he talks to other people and yeah maybe he says how much he loves you (if he has said it yet) but trust me he doesn't. In the end what you are ( or what he hopes you to be) is just another girl to be on his jock. My advice to you is break off all ties with him ,seriously not even friends, start dating other guys and forget about him. He will only end up seriously breaking your heart.
2006-11-01 01:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by ayumilover1028 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start going out with other boys. You will not even realize how soon he will be out of your system.
2006-11-01 01:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ay-yi-yi. please, no matter what he says, don't believe that a guy that cheated on his previous girlfriend with you is gonna be the love of your life!
you said you knew it was just a fling. resign yourself to that fact and move on!
2006-11-01 01:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by greenfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋