I don't know what I'm doing wrong I'm a good guy. I treat girls with the respect that they deserve. so give we some feed back please.
2006-11-01 00:56:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHY DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU NEED A GIRLFRIEND? ARE YOU THAT LONELY? I DOUBT IT.... I THINK MAYBE YOU MIGHT SOUND TOO DESPERATE, AND NEEDY....JUST LET NATURE TAKE IT'S COURSE. AND MAYBE, JUST MAYBE, YOU WILL GET LUCKY!!!!!! SOMETIMES THE MORE WE TRY THE MORE OUR EFFORTS ARE IGNORED,,,,,SOMETIMES PLAYING HARD TO GET IS A TURN ON!!!I IT IS FOR ME. I LIKE THE BAD BOY, I DON'TLIKE A GUY TO ACT LIKE HE IS SHY OR LIKE A PANZY. I LIKE A GUY TO TAKE CHARGE AND ACT LIKE A GUY!!! IF YOU SEEM NEEDY AND DESPERATE, YOU WILL MORE THAN LIKELY TURN OFF GIRLS THAN ATTRACT. iT IS REALCOOL THAT YOU ARE RESPECTFUL, ALOT OF GUYS AREN'T BUT IF A GIRL IS MEANT TO LIKE YOU THAN SHE WILL. KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING, AND YOU WILL FIND THE RIGHT ONE ......IT WILL HAPPEN
GOOD LUCK,
DAPHNE
2006-11-01 01:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Daphne F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be intimidated by women. And give them more than the respect they deserve (some women might not deserve any). Also don't follow them around like a puppy on a string, women want a man who is sure of himself not some school boy who don't know the first thing about sex.
2006-11-01 09:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol OMG!!! Dude we good guys go through all the time. For some reason ladies don't want a good guy, they want a bad boy they can change into a good guy. I'm not say TOTALLY change your personality and look but if you modify them; It may help. Try shopping a Urban Clothing stores, working out (more), maybe an earring or two... Good Luck!!
2006-11-01 09:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by beau0021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might have the problem I have I'm a really good person but my kind of personality towards guy is the kind that is only a friend I do all that girly stuff and I am all about relationships but I dont know
2006-11-01 08:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to be "just friends" with girls. Learn to talk about current events, sports, clothing styles, celebrity gossip, news, movies, tv shows...
Learn to give compliments on their hair, shoes, clothes, make-up, jewelry, etc.
Learn to be relaxed and not shy or timid.
Learn to talk about funny things you've seen or heard.
Learn to talk about different foods and restaurants (even fast-food restaurants).
Learn to talk about relationships (romantic and even personal).
Learn to tell stories or "news" so that you can talk about things in your life and so that you can make her laugh.
Learn to ask questions that will require her to talk about herself or things that are happening in her life.
Don't be afraid to ask a girl for her number and don't be afraid to give a girl your number - even if it's just for a casual conversation.
And say "hello" or "hi" to girls whether you know them or not.
Be neat - especially your shoes, hair, and hands.
Be a good listener and ask questions. And most important - be expressive with your responses.
And don't try to pick-up girls. Just try to be a "cool" guy to talk to. If you're funny sometimes and know how to carry on a conversation and help out with some good advice from time to time, you will be a good catch.
Also, don't confuse being nice with being shy. If you're shy, you're probably boring.
Make friends with girls AND GUYS and check with them from time to time to see if they know - or could "hook you up with" - a certain girl that you might be interested in at the time.
Finally, love yourself and build your self-esteem. Be CONFIDENT! Just don't be arrogant or cocky... all of the time.
This is just a start. But from here, just keep being a good guy - fair , funny, and reliable, and some girl will definitely try to catch you.
Brother DzL (AsP)
"The Player's Lifestyle"
2006-11-01 09:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by mo2dajizzo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the ladies want the bad guys who are just like them. take your time and you'll find someone who will appreciate what you to offer.
2006-11-01 09:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the desperation and you wreak of it ..trust me it's not attractive..Stop worrying so much and you might just get lucky.
2006-11-01 09:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to answer this question: Why do you need a girlfriend?
2006-11-01 09:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by ebonys_finest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women dont want respect, but most enjoy it, keep at it, you'll do fine.
2006-11-01 09:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by Dean B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move fast and don't go slow.Good luck.
2006-11-01 08:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by helen m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋