Ok there is this guy he took me 2 homecoming and we like each other and i do not no y he will not ask me out. I no he likes me cuz he cums 2 see me at my house and we kiss and we talk on the fone every night and he gave me a rose last week. he tells people he likes me and he wants 2 wait and ask me, but its been a month now and i feel like i am wastin my time.I really like him thuogh so what should I do wait 4 him 2 ask me or find another guy?????????
2006-11-01 00:47:48 · 19 answers · asked by LACEY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I think you need to give him some little more time before you jump into any rash decisions. It's possible the guy is the shy type, who actually likes you but each time he's with you he finds it a bit hard to open up to express his feelings, one thing you need to watch out for, is that during your meetings, you need to know how he feels, his looks, his disposition when he's in your company, etc.
This will help to know if actually he's the shy type of guy or if he's pretending. Once, you have been able to establish this, if he's shy, then you can decide to do the talking or take the initiative by asking what he feels about you, asking him out on a date. But if he's not truthful or pretending, then you tell him off and look elsewhere for solace.
2006-11-01 02:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several things you can do. You can either wait for him to do something (Maybe he's planning something really romantic) or force him to act. He can use that romantic plan later on if he has one.
To force him to act, you can find another guy and go on a date. This guy who likes you will be kicking himself about it or may ask you out before you go on the actual date. In a sense, you are using the other guy.
You could ask this guy about his feelings for you.
It is a modern world now so girls can ask guys out. You can ask him out if you would like.
Good luck. If all else fails, there are other guys out there who would probably die to have a chance to be with a girl like you.
2006-11-01 01:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel compelled to open my comments with a statement about your shorthand. "Know" is not spelled "no". "Because" is not spelled "Cuz", "Why" is not spelled "Y", etc. These abbreviations are not cute, do not make you look special. Please stop doing this before it is too late and you cannot get a job somewhere.
Now, regarding your question: This all sounds like grade-school stuff. Stay, wait, leave, find, whatever - in the long run, it will have no effect upon your life or his. This sort of thing happens over and over till you are in your 20's Get used to it now, and make any decision today that will not do damage to you, or him, or anyone else.
Good luck
2006-11-01 00:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you feel like waiting wait but i dont know if you know this but guys actually like it when a girl asks them out so if you really like him dont wait around go and ask him or dont its your choice.
2006-11-01 01:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Davey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a shame that us guys always have to figure out what it is you girls want. Take a dive You ask him. Maybe he respects you enough to take it slow but you can also ask.
2006-11-01 00:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by JahMekYa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I just had to answer this even though I am a woman. You can ask him out.
2006-11-01 00:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont rush it he might be the right person for you and the next guy totally wrong 4 you
2006-11-01 00:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right if you love or like him then stay if youre sick and tired leave
2006-11-01 01:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by antonio b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks he has asked you out. Does he literally have to say I want to be your boyfriend?
2006-11-01 00:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not just ask him out? Or ask him what he considers you to him... i.e. Friends or more then friends
2006-11-01 00:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by beau0021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋