iam a lovely person just cant meet mr right. i dont know where to look. iam well covered but still have a lot of loving to give. what should i do? where should i go?
2006-11-01 00:03:03 · 23 answers · asked by shae c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like all women but I'm looking a for a woman who can fun loving and smart. I usually look for a woman who seem to have the same interests as me. I would look for a man at activities you enjoy and hopefully meet one.
2006-11-01 00:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Minot_1997 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, I am sure you are a lovely person. What do you look for in a man?
Men are exactly the same but I would suggest we a a little more fickle. I think that when I am introduced to a woman (like you a man) I sorta know whether I am attracted to them or not.
I am sure that whatever body shape you have there are other people who will find you attractive. After attraction it then provides for the introduction to develop into a relationship.
If a guy says "Hey, I just want to be friends", he means, "I don;t want to hurt your feelings but I just not that into you" I;m sure you have felt the same way at least once or twice in your life.
One of my friends is quite cuddly, and always complains that she cannot find a guy. We have introduced her to three guys, most who share the same body style (or thereabouts) and she actually said at one point, I just don't find him attractive enough. I'm thinking Mmmmm... looked in a mirror lately?
Anyways... There is always someone out there for you.
Men first look for attraction. Normally the woman will be similar in body shape or tone etc. We ourselves normally exclude ourselves from women that we think are really pretty. "I'd never get her" thing happening.
Second - Have we got anything in common? If not, (as crass as it sounds, is there anything in it for me. If a guy does you on the first date or there abouts I would suggest you will not see him again.
Do you provide for my needs. This is more long term. Are you loving, caring, etc This does not mean that it should be a one sided relationship. Get what you give.
Think of yourself as beautiful, and others will know your beautiful.
All the best.
2006-11-01 00:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by Triestobewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about that I guess I am one loll anyway after 18 years of marriage and the stress of working two job and having children for some reason I am just to tired to care any more and with a husband that think he G Q,I really doesn't care if he walk with me or not or have another woman. Let's her feel the pain but I did lost a lots of weight went we wasn't together for 4 month about 40 pounds i think I was a little happy that he was away lets stress to my system now that he back being lazy and not want to work because he so GOOD LOOKING I WANT HIM OUT
2016-05-23 01:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by Johnna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men like big women some don't. Men have a diff types of women they like. A man also likes a women with confidence. If u don't have a lot of that, then u won't ever find mr right because a man doesnt want to be around a woman who thinks low of herself
2006-11-01 00:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by dcutegirl06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shae, there are lots and lots of men who don't give a hoot about the physical size of a woman. Trouble is rooting out the more mature ones who admire a woman for who she is, and can appreciate her voluptuousness. Another answerer mentioned "not looking", and that is really true, albeit frustrating. I met the most wonderful man in church, and have been married over 17 years. We are total opposites in every way, even physically, but are a perfect match! Hang in there. Make sure you are confident in who you are, and do interesting things to keep yourself happy!
2006-11-01 00:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't mind an overweight partner, some actually prefer them...some don't care for it...it's a personal preference...
You're more likely to meet someone who is a good match when you are not actively looking...stop seeking a mate and just enjoy life...when you are happy with you and what you have then you'll be in a good position to make a good partner for someone, and the next thing you know, there one will be...
2006-11-01 00:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shae looks are important . but personality is far far more relevant .Look at how many Barbie doll blonde's get called stuck up or snobby guys hate that little miss attitude guys like a nice girl that dresses nice carries herself with style and confidence . Don't worry about Mr right he is out there he is just not looking in the right place for you at the moment after all as you said you are a nice person and nice girls get dates to sweety be patient he is out there and he is looking for you ...... PS soft is sexy >;O)
2006-11-01 00:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes men like any chicks, you will find mr right as you say, it may just be a long search, but when you find him you will get lots of loving back. Don't fall the stero-type 36-24-36 bull.
2006-11-01 00:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by redhotboxsoxfan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My sister has been overweight all her life, and she's been married 2 times, while I am skinny and had a ***** of a time finding my Mr. Right (only took me 35 years. lol). So, whether or not you are obese or not does not mean that love isn't around the corner for you too.
2006-11-01 00:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Shae
you know what don't go looking for love it will find you. I am a large lady 42 and i found the best guy in the world. i was only going to the shop for cigs. Hes the complete oppisite from me. Hes out there girl just wait
2006-11-01 00:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋