I called her sunday -she said she was at work and was a little abrupt- We spent 2 hrs at dinner and exchanged #'s .
I don't know if she changed her mind but I will try to call her
for a 2nd date and find out.
The only other thing I could think of is I gave her a hug goodnight-and she may have been a little surpirised-but I don't think
that could have been it .
what should I do ??
2006-10-31 23:50:19 · 15 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
date went well- we spent 2 hrs -just
talking and getting to knoweach other
more-no sparks this soon-but not to
be expected-she is a little reserved kind
of person-we exchanged #'s .left, gave
her a hug goodbye and that's it-
I did not ask her for a hug-I did n ot want
to just shake hands-
when I gave her a hug and did not say anything-she said -"oh-let me give you a hug" herself. I probably shoudl have said
something like Let me give you a hug-but
it happened too quick- I just did it
without thinking because it was only
a hug- not a kiss
2006-10-31 23:59:50 · update #1
I agree with one of the answers-she
probably would not have spent 2 hrs
if she did not find me interesting
2006-11-01 00:02:27 · update #2
try call her u can 't say what on her mind she might have been waiting for your call,u can ask her for a 2nd date and if she rejects the offer don't oblige she might be playing hard to get ,from a woman to spend 2hrs with a blind date ,she found u interesting.
good luck
2006-11-01 00:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by atola o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it could not have been the hug...Umm call her on thursday and ask her how is she doing ask her if she had a good time and if she is willing to go out for a second time /////give it a try it wont hurt and plus she was at work anyone will be abrupt at work
2006-11-01 07:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by melanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't like to take personal calls while at work. Maybe she was just really busy. I would call her again today. But try to call her when you think she will be out of work. If you get the same vibe - give it up. There are a lot of fish in the sea & you don't need to keep chasing a cold one.
2006-11-01 07:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by CDK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her tonight! See if she wants to go out on friday night or maybe a saturday afternoon date. That way you establish contact with her, but you aren't asking her to do something right away. When you call a girl and ask her if she wants to go out the next night, its like you're seeing/talking to her every night(comes off as clingy at first). Put a day or two inbetween when you ask her out and when you go out. it helps a lot!
2006-11-01 07:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by bored_at_work 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try calling one more time, and ask her out.
If she does not go and does not give you a good reason,
than i would just let it go. I would think if she was excited
about the first date, she would of already called you back.
Good luck, dating can be hard !
2006-11-01 07:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call her tonight. I would not keep the woman waiting for a call back. Let her know you are interested. I would not play a waiting game. If you want to call now then call.
2006-11-01 07:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by Parrot Bay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her today! Don't think about it too much. Just go with your gut. If it doesn't work out, then go for someone else. Life is too short to worry about these things.
2006-11-01 07:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to call her one more time, if she blows you off stop right away, she is telling you that she's not interested in you.
2006-11-01 07:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by Minot_1997 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to put more details on how the date went and then maybe I can help you.
2006-11-01 07:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling one more time. I f she has an excuse or does not call you back then forget it.
2006-11-01 07:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by tinkerbella9287 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋