He's 29, good looking, brill personality, kind, thoughtful, caring & really makes the girl feel special, but he's been single for years, he's dated but it never seems to work. What do you think he's doing wrong? Or is it just he's too nice?
2006-10-31 23:40:28 · 16 answers · asked by Bubbly Blonde 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not gay, he tragically lost his 'special someone' when her husband killed her.
2006-10-31 23:46:40 · update #1
We're in Croydon, but he's moving to Chessington Surrey, soon
2006-10-31 23:52:26 · update #2
hmmm......
i can't understand that if he is like you wrote.how can he be single?i think,he isn't wrong just girls are a little bit stupid.they don't want to be with a person like your friend.they always try to be with a crazy boy......
2006-10-31 23:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend who is in a similar predicament, i do believe that it is because he is too nice and could possibly be a pushover in some relationships which really turns the girl off. As long as he remains nice but stands his ground he should be fine. If you think he is so nice why dont you go out with him. think about that and you maybe able to help him
2006-10-31 23:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by redhead haylz xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as too nice. Just hasn't met that special one yet - maybe he's looking in the wrong places. Don't go to bars, chat up women at the grocery store!
2006-10-31 23:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend cannot help his personality but sometimes a man can be too nice and it feels stifling to some girls. I just think he hasn't found the girl for him yet and he has plenty of time 'cos he's still young. Just don't worry about him. He'll meet his soulmate one day then you'll be worried because he's spending all his time with her instead of you.
2006-10-31 23:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sandee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes only 29, theres another 11years in him before he has to settle down. He might not be doing anything wrong at all, best leave well alone, you don't want to ruin a good friendship.
2006-11-01 04:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by John Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
29 is not so old! Perhaps he is just waiting for the right one -and probably she will. Good for him! If you take your time you get it right.....look how many younger single mums there are now - bet some of them wish they had taken more time
2006-10-31 23:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For what its worth, tell him to write a list of all the things he would like to have in his partner. Very specific and detailed. Then be that person and see who is attracted.
2006-10-31 23:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by Rita T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about the law of averages.....the more people you meet the more chance you will have meeting the right one..no point in going out with someone if your only 75% into them. as long as he keeps dating the more chance he will have of meeting someone special
2006-10-31 23:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by Quintus T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either gay or he is just too nice
2006-10-31 23:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by sarahbabe315 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's picking the same type over and over and that usually nets the same results.in order for outcomes to change we have to change the input.
2006-10-31 23:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋