we are away from each other right now, and for a few months longer. he said being away from me is liking being in prison and he's counting down the days till i come back. he knows he will be free again and with me. he also said that he was talking to another girl at the weekend, that he wouldn't do anything but it made him think how much he misses sex and how easy it is just to touch someone. that he was jealous of the people he saw together. he didn't stop talking about the girl until it upset me. then i said i had to tell him something about that night, how i felt. and he thought i'd gone off and kissed / slept with another guy. i said i felt like i needed a hug last night, and he said 'well, you could have had one. who's fault is that' i just meant i wanted some tenderness, and i left feeling kinda unfufilled. he didn't think that we'd ended it badly. but i did. what do you think is going on?
2006-10-31 23:29:21 · 7 answers · asked by maria h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's just seperation anxseity. Many guys will assume that just becase you are away you MUST be doing something with another guy. You need to have a conversation with him and explain that you only want to be with him. He needs to unnderstand that you are thinking of him all the time and he need to show that he thinks the same too.
2006-10-31 23:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by soccergoalie105 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are based on trust, not lust. When you have trust for each other you will be able to share your love.
Sounds like you already know, but are afraid to admit it too yourself that you are having trust issues. You need a heart to heart talk- tell him exactly how you feel and how his actions make you feel. Ask him if you have been acting weird too. Get it all on the table. No one can define your relationship but you two. Tell him what you want in a boyfriend relationship and see if he can fulfills your wishes. If he can't its time to let him be free.
Take care, you will be fine.
2006-11-01 07:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by earinfection 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both of you are just getting a little paranoid and jealous. I feel it is typical in your circumstances.
It will get better. I hope this can be a good lesson for him.
Hopefully he is learning from it. There is too many hardships in life besides adding to your hardships by getting in trouble with the law.
When he gets out, I'd give him one final chance. If he blows it and gets in more trouble, get the hell away from him.
2006-11-01 07:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by peekie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's just being himself i guess. He was talkin about the girl to make you feel jealous, that s about it. Im sure girls do it sometimes too.
2006-11-01 07:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him back and tell him that you want to see him this weekend to work things out, and VOWALA!!!!
2006-11-01 16:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the two of you are missing each other and are contemplating cheating.
2006-11-01 07:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant take manly honesty
u r suspicious when you hear straight talking
2006-11-01 07:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋