i really like this guy and he says he likes me too. he shows all the signs of liking me but ive heard that hes a player!how can tell if he is a player?i havent slept with him and he is not pushing me for it either!
2006-10-31 23:27:07 · 21 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well...... you can tell by flirting w/ him, and seeing if he is flirting with lots of other girls too. if he does flirt with them and says the same things to them, then chances are he is a player. if he doesnt, well then GO FOR IT!!!!!! :-) Hope this helps!
2006-10-31 23:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by sarahbabe315 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here it goes...
even if he is a player, there are two types of players
a) short game players: title is simple, they will sleep w/u and sooner than later (maybe same night) dump u
or
b) long game players: those who will wait till u come around, and/or u get dumped or dump some1, and they will be there to catch u. and they will catch u good and easy cause u need a rebound man.
if u wait a bit, the short game player will go away. thus u r left with 50/50 chance that he a normal guy. not bad odds.
gl
ps. here goes the hate mail.... i have waited for up to 3 years for things to turn around and sleep w/a woman. usually a year or two bfs is best. one time i even helped her pack her stuff and move to her new condo. (to my defence, i threat every woman like a princess and i pay alot of attention to her in bed, so she is a very happy gal w/me. so she gets a good deal, i just do less work getting there. another 1 now and then used to bring her single cousin when we went out.)
point being, chances are the long turm player will treat u better anyway.
2006-11-01 01:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Nick A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be careful. Look alot of guys that are players make you think that that isn't what's on their mind but after they get it it might be over between you two. Just keep an eye out and if you see him flirt with more girls then just you then he is a player.
2006-10-31 23:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by jjfabls69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are players. If he is not pressuring you, that is just his angle. The "nice guy" approach gets the girls every time. Never trust us. The only thing we care about at a young age is breeding. Good luck.
2006-10-31 23:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i say is be careful, it really depends on whos telling you hes a player. I would wait. If one of your friends is sayinghe a player maybe she likes him. Have a word with him and just ask him if he wants to date you
2006-10-31 23:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are around him all the time has he slept with many other girls that you know??? Don't belive every thing that you hear, if it was another girl that told you that she might have a crush on him her self and is trying to keep you away from him as well.
2006-10-31 23:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by machine_demon_hunter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to what ppl say but just trust your heart and since u heard a he is a player then u should just watch out.
2006-10-31 23:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by twisted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arrange for a pretty friend of your to come along on for a coffee with you guys and act like you're up to nothing. Your friend has to try flirting with him to see if he responds. Show his some girl power :)
2006-10-31 23:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your own mind up...rumours can be untrue or maybe he used to be but has since changed his wicked ways. Who knows, but if you like him, then take a chance and get to know the guy and make up your own mind.
2006-10-31 23:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard you never know i just had my heart broken by a guy i thought was my soulmate and he dumped me as soon as i let my heart go one thing i learnt if they are too full on with emotions too soon they are full of it, also be aware of anyone called dale or policeman good luck always listen to your intutuion it is never wrong
2006-11-01 00:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by fame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋