my new girlfreind is wonderful, but seems like she doesn't take care of herself the way other women do. she is kind of strong smelling down under. dont get me wrong, she does'nt make your nose burn or anything like that. its just that i love to go down and be very oral at times and i just cant do this because of what i smell. i really like her a lot and feel like this could become a long term thing, but this is really bugging me. could anyone give me some suggestions on how to get her to try to clean up better without hurting her feelings. i really dont want to be insulting or hurtful because i really do care for her.
2006-10-31 23:23:25 · 23 answers · asked by jbhunter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some women just smell stronger than other women, this may be the case, either way you gotta talk about it i'm sure she wants you to keep doin that thing, so she might be embarassed at first but she'll get over it to keep u both happy
2006-10-31 23:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by foolsowl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey man - smells come and go - just like street cars. If it persists for more than a week, suggest bathing together and washing each other. Then chow down.
It is probably not really a matter of hygiene. She could be cleaning right, but because of some type of infection or acidity in her diet or a thousand other things. If it comes down to telling her, you gotta say "Hon, I'm smelling something a little off... do you think there might be a problem?"
2006-10-31 23:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by toaster4 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are a few things that should be said in answer to this question. First, is it really that she seems unclean?? Some women just NATURALLY have stronger odors than others (just like some people who sweat really stink and others don't). Washing won't change this! Second, it may actually be a symptomless bacterial infection, there are a few that women can have without even knowing it.
Now for my answer as to what I think you should do. If you really like this girl, you need to let her know about it. If there were something I could do to please my partner in the bedroom I would definitely want to know about it!! Don't try to tell her she stinks or that she needs to wash, phrase it more delicately like 'I really want to please you orally but a woman's odor isn't that appealing, would you mind washing (or letting me wash you) first?' Or you could ask her if you could use some scented perfume or lube in the area because it turns you on. Don't make it about something she's doing that's wrong, but try to make it about something she could do for you that would turn you on and make your sex life better.
PS- If the smell doesn't seem to get better after a shower, or it seems to get worse over time, you need to tell her just as politely because it may be one of those aforementioned infections and she should go to the doctor and get it checked out!
2006-10-31 23:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by jenieatworld 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just don't feel there is any easy way to tell her! Just be as gentle and tactful as you possibly can! If she loves you being oral with her, she will be much more conducive to her comment.
A nicer way to do this might be suggesting that the two of you shower together, and get that bar of soap and lather it really well. Tell her you love a wonderful, clean smelling *****, so you can love and kiss on it forever.
Hopefully, she would take a hint! Hope it works!
Good luck!
2006-10-31 23:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by peekie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you go to the store and get some candles and bubble bath. Go in the bathroom, but don't tell her what you are doing. Set the candles around the tub and light them and fill the tub and put in the bubble bath, then take you clothes off. While it is filling go to her and start taking her clothes off and then lead her to the tub. Once you are in, give her the cloth and let her start washing you all over and then you start washing her, start with her breasts and work down to her vaginal area and gently wash her. Be very romantic about it and she won't suspect a thing.
I think you can figure out the rest Big Guy!!
Have fun!!
2006-10-31 23:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by yakity_one 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 07:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by predmore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. She could possibly have a yeast infection and maybe not know it, If she is showering daily and she washes herself and it still is bad thats most likely what it is... your best bet would be to tell her and have her checked out. Just tell her that your worried something might be wrong with you and then ask her if she feels at all weird down there, if she does have one you will get it, so just lie to find out and to not hurt her feelings...
2006-10-31 23:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, be direct to her go BOTH of YOU to the doctor. Health is more important than pleasure. If you worried about the smell while licking her, how about being worried of getting an STD? For sure you dont want to have an unhealthy baby when it accidentally happened.
Apology if I am too forward but this is really important. My bf and I agreed to go together to see how healthy we are... Kisses!
2006-10-31 23:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by Roszi Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,there's nothing you can do but tell her.She needs to take care of it,or she will suffer later on.You can make sure that she takes a shower before you have sex...That might work too,but for her to be clean,isn't the thing you can do.
2006-10-31 23:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While the only thing i think you can do there without hurting her feelings is before you both get going THE 2 of you should START IN THE SHOWER
2006-10-31 23:26:45 · answer #10 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋