guys, need your help
it's about my man. he keeps on telling me we are just friends and everytime i ask him about us?if he is planning to have a serious relationship, he always say he isn't ready for it.he tells me to look for a bf of my own but I wonder why he still goes out with me and we still make love.he still gives time to be with me.
I don't know what to do at all.
2006-10-31 23:16:33 · 18 answers · asked by tata 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is just using you to get laid. He is telling you this. He does not want a relationship. He just wants to get his rocks off with no strings attached.>
2006-10-31 23:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it but your getting used for the goods. He won't ever be in a real relationship with you if he's already saying those things. He will however put up with all of your questions as long as you keep giving up the goods. Once you stop, I guarantee that he will be gone.
2006-10-31 23:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by KieraSimone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rosa Lyn its because you are fulfilling his needs a date that is on hand when he wants it ,sex with out recourse, and in you he has no emotional ties , this guy in my humble opinion isn't a friend he is using you to fulfill his wants and desires ,with out the big C word (commitment). you give him no reason to get serious with you, you give and don't demand anything in return . Girl close the bedroom door and just see him as a friend ,look at his change in attitude you'll see what he is when he isn't getting what he wants from you .
2006-10-31 23:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The writing is very clear on the wall. You are just his f.u.c.k. buddy so he's enjoying the time of his life and unfortunately you think you can change him or get him to fall for you so you give him your time and body.
Here's a wake up call. Either stop the ''madness'' or go with the flow till he dumps you or till you get another guy.
2006-10-31 23:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, he may enjoy your company but chances are it's because you let him have sex with you. Sex without commitment is what every guy wants from a girl he tells he isn't ready for a serious relationship.
2006-10-31 23:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no reasson to change the current arrangement because it warks for him, is up to you just tell him that ither get into a serious relation ship or you stop having sex with him.
2006-10-31 23:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by chemdog23_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. I know it's hard for some women to understand that men can be friendly with and have sex with a woman without loving her. I'm afraid that is the way some men are.
2006-10-31 23:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he juz wana b ur friend thats for sure... y u xpect more than that..itz gud & last long relation so njoy his frndship...if he is not ready for serious relationship...dont ask him again & again if he doznt feels for u that way,so wat u r gud frndzat least y u keep asking him & spoiling ur frndship! he still goes out wid u coz he dont wana loose ur frndship coz may b u r very nice person or friend & may b he feels u close frnd& shares wid u almost evrything..dont try to find out different names 4 ur relationship wen u hv already got his true frndship & his support.
BEST LUCK!
2006-10-31 23:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like a case of "Has his cake and eat it too"! You're a sure thing for him while he looks for better. You should be lookingg for something better too!
2006-10-31 23:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not using or manipulating you. He's put it completely out there- "get a bf of your own-I'm not interested". What do you exactly need him to say????
2006-10-31 23:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋