My baby daddy just got out of jail our baby is 4 months we are pretty much over I had him put in jail under a parole violation(I lied)anyway I am done with him but he still feels we can work it out(NOT!)and wants me to remain open for him while he goes and tramps around how do I really get him to understand I was hurt so deep by him that the damage is unrepairable and I won't ever be his again
2006-10-31 23:02:03 · 10 answers · asked by mslewis1972 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just sit down with a few elders around and make it clear that its over. Work out something legally for child support. Find a good job to do and move on with life.
2006-10-31 23:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really dont ever want to see him again then cut ALL ties. never see him / speak to him again. its only fair on him. but let him see his child. do all the legal visitation rights through a lawyer so you wont have to see him.
2006-11-01 07:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get him to understand how you feel because he is to concerned with himself. Go on with your life and don't get involved with people who go to jail, especialy repeat offenders.
2006-11-01 07:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont stay in a relationship where you feel hurt, it will only aggravate the pain more, since you feel as if you are damaged internally emmotionally..
2006-11-01 07:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by ladymember 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE! also get restraining order. that usually helps, but if he doesnt get it after that, see a lawyer!
2006-11-01 07:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by jonsforde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leopard can never change it's spots.
2006-11-01 07:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him frankly but calmly...explain to him how you feel...that you won't be able to trust him again that's why its all over...
2006-11-01 07:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on and don't have sex with him anymore that usually does it.
2006-11-01 07:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD FOR YOU.
JUST FORGET ABOUT HIM .
HE SOUNDS LIKE A REAL JERK
2006-11-01 07:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run!!!!!!!!!!! As far as you can go!!!!!
2006-11-01 07:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by KieraSimone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋