I'm together with my gf for nearly 9mths and now she suddenly tells me that she doesnt like me as much as last time. She was overseas for 3 weeks and during the first 2 weeks things didnt went out of hand and I don't understand why things turned so bad jus before she returned. She said the meanest things to me and I admit that I was really hurt by what she've said to me. We've both tried talking and we're still together now but things aren't working out that fine btw us. We both tried giving up but we couldnt bear to do so, at least not for now. She said that she doesnt want a bf and that she's a person that's hard to get along with but I've been giving in to her and been really nice to her as she had said too. She said she wanna think about our r/s and what can I do to help her find back the feelings she once had for me?
2006-10-31 22:14:02 · 13 answers · asked by devastated 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once you take the L out of lover you have over
2006-10-31 22:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has realized that there is other guys/men out there. You can try doing the special things u used to do for her when u guys first started dating. If your putting it all out there and she's not responding, well....... hate to say this but it might be over. If its meant to be it will be. If not, don't waste your time, u end it now and find someone that appreciates u.
2006-11-01 06:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by kittymeow63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say leave her. Unless she knows what she wants, this kind of thing will never end. Do yourself a favor: End it in a kind and classy way, then find someone who will not be so wishy-washy with you. There is someone out there for you, and you deserve it.
2006-11-01 06:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin Chisholm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her what she wants! Leave! Next!
If you change for a woman over time, she will not want you anymore.
Next time stay yourself, be who you were meant to be, don't change a single thing.
2006-11-01 06:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by mikey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she either found Joe Grind on her trip
2006-11-01 06:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by BuRn Di WiSdOm WeEd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to finish with her .I think she is using you .
she doesnt want to be with you but doesnt want anybody else to have you .
Do your self a favour and finish with her .Do you really want to have a relationship with somebody who has been that horrible to you .
If you stay with her you will always waiting for her to change her mind again .
Finish it mate .
2006-11-01 06:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by bradderswifey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's met someone else.
2006-11-01 06:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i'm your girl, i will try to make it a point that you will know why i fell out of love.
2006-11-01 06:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by jaz_cute07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she maybe confuse....maybe she someone else right there....that make her feeling about you change...give her time....but if there nothing left to do, just let her go.....
2006-11-01 06:19:31 · answer #9 · answered by mag b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she meet some one else
2006-11-01 06:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by FireFighter96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋