2006-10-31 22:01:46 · 24 answers · asked by chyfela kuti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really want advice? I mean, do you really, really want to hear TRUE opinions? Because it's to dump the Guy. Okay, But if he's not ready for monogamy and insists that it's okay if he flirts and is unfaithful, then honey, this is not a man worth keeping.
You're probably cringing, thinking, "But he's the love of my life!" Trust me, he's not. The love of your life will respect your needs and wishes, and won't disrespect you by being unfaithful or sleeping around with others. God help you if you end up marrying him then you be in worse trouble than you are in now!!
If you're still not ready to give him the hook, at least give him an ultimatum: "Either you stop or it's over between us." Tell him that even though his "flings" are meaningless to him, they give you tremendous pain. If he truly cares for you, he won't take your threat lying down.
But, as I've said if you dilute an ultimatum by going back on it, you lose your power position and he'll continue dipping and snacking on the side and treat you as 'Dirt'. You'll know soon enough whether or not he can keep his pants zipped. Sorry to end on a downer, but ask yourself if a man who has to be coerced into being faithful is likely to remain faithful over the long haul.
Good Luck>r
2006-10-31 22:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 02:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by delcampo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like every other person i wont tell u to leave him coz true love is hard to get but by the way u wrote told me that this is your true love if u thing he is not faithful person then talk to him directly but in a loveable way , try to attract him by your dress up but were sober dresses and behave so nicely with him that he would definately understand your love for him take as much care of him as much possible but dont let him climb into your head act like watever i hve told u for 2 months and if it doesnt work then e-mail me i will try to solve your problem mail me at rituevergreen@yahoo.com and be happy take care bye ritu
2006-10-31 22:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Farzana 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he doesn't respect u. You cannot have your cake and eat it too. If he truly loved u, he wouldn't be unfaithful. U need to get rid of him, cause if he's going to do it now, if and when u two get married he'll continue to do it. Get out while u still can.
2006-10-31 22:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by kittymeow63 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not deserve that. and You must know and believe that. If you allow that to happen where do u see your life as a happy married couple in 10 years. DUMP HIM and find someone who loves you as much as you love him. AND it will not be easy but its now or forever have him touching someone else. He is out there will just need to find him... pray
2006-10-31 22:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by alheseas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not love because the feelings arn't mutual. Don't be afraid to move on and don't waist anymore time. Find someone who will love you back, you deserve more.
2006-10-31 22:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't deserve your love, he doesn't deserve your respect. Dump him. It will hurt for a few days then it will be ovwer, it is better than hurting forever. All the best!
2006-10-31 22:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by pretty1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know the answer...you need to leave him. It is scarry but not as scary as what you have the chance of getting if you stay with a guy ho sleeps around.
2006-10-31 22:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't respect him if he is out whoring around.All you are doing is disrespecting yourself,leave him.
2006-10-31 22:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by want2wild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, get rid of him. A strong relationship is based on trust and if you can't trust him then you won't have a good relationship.>
2006-10-31 22:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋