I am in a relationship with my fiance and have been living with him for 7 years. I recently decided to join the army. Well I have to go away for 80 days and can only see him once in that time. I am worried that he will cheat on me while I'm gone. This is a huge decision but I think that I should do it. He as told me manytimes that he would never do that to me, nut he thinks that I am only going away for the 80 days. I haven't told him that after my initial traing I have to go away for another months for further training. Do you think that he will be faithful to me? I love him more than anything and it's going to kill me to be away so long but I am doing this to better our lives. What do you think?
2006-10-31 21:53:33 · 7 answers · asked by rach_e_01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you should do what makes you happy. If he really loves you and if fully commited to you then he will support any desicion which you make.
2006-10-31 21:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust your partner what are you doing with him? A relationship is built on trust, and if you feel you have to be there every minute of the day to check up on him, then do him and yourself a favour and set him free.
My fiance works away from home, and while it isn't the armed forces he does spend more time away from home than at home. I trust him 100%, and he trusts me 100%; and if we didn't then we certainly would not be together. I have no problem with him working away, except that I miss him terribly while he is away.
2006-10-31 22:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're in the army, isnt the training mandatory ? Anyways since you've already expressed your concern of him being unfaithful, the only other step is to test the waters. Leave for your training, and if he cheats, then be comforted that it wasnt meant to be.
2006-10-31 21:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by chance m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. you have to first reflect on everything you've been in. did he ever cheat on you. if he did, there is a possibility he can do that again but only a possibility. but you should trust him unless you know 'something' about him which is bad. if it's rumors don't believe it right away, but try to check it out.
my final answer, you say you think you should do it, so you should. just have faith in him.
2006-10-31 22:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by Unexpected Hopeless Romantic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is going to enjoy the break.
Run along now.
2006-10-31 21:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go girl go
2006-10-31 21:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you either trust him or not --- if you dont why be with him --- and if you do there is no problem
2006-10-31 21:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋