Whoever said "A kiss is just a kiss" had obviously never been kissed properly. A kiss can be sexy, sweet, smooth, slow, fast, enticing, revealing or world-rocking. Who knew two lips could say so much?
Sensual, sexy lip-to-lip is a lost art for many of us who find ourselves face-to-face with a new amour. And I'd put money on it that jaded pros of French kissing could stand to refine their technique. So let's get right down to the essentials of what will add a French flavor to your lips:
The Timing
The best lovers of the world (who, by the way, are rarely French) are masters of timing. They know how to milk the yearning by barely brushing their lips against yours, and they know precisely when to go in, full-throttled, for the kill. While sense of timing may be a genetically inherited trait shared among musicians, comedians and successful stockbrokers, one can learn the basics by paying close attention your partner's breathing. If he is panting and breathless, experiment with Example 1 below. If your date has calm and predictable inhalations, give Example 2 a try. Now let's review the basics:
The Mechanics
The first rule of French kissing is that every woman has her own style. This style evolves out of a combination of your mouth's unique anatomy, including the length of your tongue and how far your jaw will open, as well as your level of sexual aggression and personal tastes. Regardless, the mechanics are all the same: Tilt your head to one side, part your lips, slip your tongue into your mate's parting lips, then explore what's inside. Breathe through your nose (or your mouth if your nose is stuffy). Once you've got the basic mechanics down, it's time to experiment with technique. Here are two worthy of experimentation:
Example 1 - The Lusty French Kiss
This kiss needs no warm-up. You want your partner and your partner wants you, as evidenced by your collective, animal-like panting. Your tongue is already in his mouth before you realize that you're kissing. But now what? Slowly -- and I mean slowly -- roll your tongue in circles around your partner's. Thrust shallow, thrust deep. Then circle again. Tilt your head to the other side, and repeat. Playfully bite his lower lip, then lick his lips. Try different variations of the above. The combinations are endless.
Example 2 - The Coy French Kiss
This kiss needs coaxing, as evident by your partner's mellow breathing. Start with his lips. With the tip of your tongue lick his top lip, then kiss him softly, no tongue. Next, taste his lower lip, then brush both your lips back and forth, and up and down his. Gaze seductively into your partner's eyes -- eye contact usually helps rev up the respiratory system. Next, add a little panting and moaning to your efforts. Finally, ease your tongue between his lips, slipping in and out. Continue in this coy manner until you reach the point where the lusty French kiss takes over (see above). Then alternate between the coy and lusty kisses. You see, variety and surprise are what ultimately make a French kiss more than just a kiss.
Go ahead and Good Luck>r
2006-10-31 22:03:21
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answered by Rahul 6
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Kiss should arouse the passion in both.
The lips have to lock. As the lips lock, the bodies need to entwine.
The tongues should feel each other. It should generate enough heat that, the guy must be hard on and the girl is wet.
2006-10-31 21:58:06
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answered by Anonymous
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To enjoy kissing, firstly you must really enjoy the person you're kissing! That's rule number one. And when I mean enjoy, you have to fancy the pants off them. If there's been sexual tension between you for a while, the first kiss is always really powerful as the exchange of emotions and chemicals is really intense. When I kiss someone I fancy, I want them to enjoy it. I'll get pleasure out of knowing they want more. I'll start out really slowly at first, sucking there lips slowly and rolling my tongue near there mouth. As it gets more intense, my hands will follow the movements of there body - I'll want to feel them. I always time the tonque moment too. She has to want it, and giving tonque has to be done subtley - you're not trying to break through a barrier! The best kiss I ever had was when I fancied this girl for over 8 months before we got it on. 8 months worth of tension almost made me collapse when we kissed for the first time.
2006-10-31 21:56:44
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answered by Charlie Brigante 4
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You need to be light but firm to start with, gently get the bottom lip in your mouth and suck a litle. Thats very nice. I find some hard kissing within a kiss is also good. Dont over invade someones mouth when using your tongue. Sucking the tongue is also quite erotic.
2006-10-31 21:54:20
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answered by mjastbury 3
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There isn't any art of kissing it's how you are and what feels right for you when you actually do it!
2006-10-31 22:02:37
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answered by teespencer 2
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Start of nice and gentle and then see where it leads. It should be a natural proggression. Depending on the passion in your relationship.
2006-10-31 21:52:59
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answered by Anonymous
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A clean mouth, delicate probing not shoving the tongue straight it. Hands should also hold the face.
2006-10-31 21:53:37
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answered by Powerpuffgeezer 5
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it's just the experience of it. when you kiss a person you love, everything seems perfect. that's the art of it.
2006-10-31 21:53:55
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answered by .:BeLLe:. 2
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I think the Kama Sudra came from India - you should tell me.
2006-10-31 21:55:20
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answered by Toto 6
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its sticking ur thug down someones trough,and hoping they hav'nt got smelly breath.
2006-10-31 23:49:51
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answered by SEXYC 2
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