How often is one time too many?

Question

To the Men; how often do you use "I'm just busy" as an excuse when you don't want to bothered with a girl?

And ladies: How often does a guy get away with "Sorry, but I've been Soooooo busy..." before you decide he's avoiding you and move on? How do you react to "I'm busy" - do you call him, do you sweat it out, what's your coping mechanism?

Answer 1

I don't say that unless I am
then when I get "caught up" I call.

when I hear that from a woman
I leave her to do the same

well
if I never hear from her

then
she either does NOT care for me that way
or
is too irresponsible for me, to even be friends with..

better to know early

ya think?
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Answer 2

It depends on his 'profession/occupation and his work schedule'. If he was a doctor for example, obviously he would be busy. But if its getting much like as if he's avoiding me (use your female intuition) and doesn't call to say sweet nothings or make it up to me after his busy schedule or others, then i'll know its time to move on. But you have to be really sure as he could be telling the truth but also, he should make it up to you.

If it affcets you too much, talk to him and tell him how you feel and then you should be able to reach a compromise on when to create strictly ''alone time'' for you two.

Answer 3

I use it whenever I am just to busy, with school quite a bit but never to a girl. I am very direct when not interested. Give it some time let him contact you when he "isn't so busy"
-NmD!

Answer 4

You do understand that sometimes guys really are busy I hope.

As much as he likes you, other things happen that need his attention.

Answer 5

One time is one time too many

Answer 6

i dont say im busy --- my lady has the priority

Answer 7

good oe - did it once to avoid someone haha haha