Everything my boyfriend does annoys me, and i dont fancy him anymore. I dont want to be on my own but surely there is someone out there that i want to spend all my time with and not count the hours down until he goes home. Any advice?
2006-10-31 21:03:26 · 25 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't be with someone you don't fancy just because you don't want to be alone. It's not fair on them or you. You'll just end up hating them and your life will be far more misrable than if you were on your own.
2006-10-31 21:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mumof1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with being on your own? Why are you holding on to something you don't want anymore? Maybe because you're feeling like there may not be anyone else like him out there and what if you don't find someone that you want to spend all your time with. I say this because I am in the exact same situation. By holding on to this man, you are blocking good things that are going to happen to you. You are blocking that special someone who you will want to spend all your time with. If you don't fancy him anymore, then it's time to cut the strings. When you're on your own, you get to decide what's right for you, what you will and will not accept in a relationship, you get to go over what mistakes you make and what you will not tolerate ever again. You get to reevaluate your life and yourself and you get to breathe! Let it go and look forward to that special someone and be ready for him when he comes.
2006-11-01 05:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is obvious the reason your asking is because we all look for approval from someone just to make sure we are doing the right thing . I recently dumped someone because they were annoying and even though am sad i know am better off without the hassle. He will take advantage and before you know it it will be too late. In the words of destiny's child BREAK THE BAD HABIT
2006-11-01 05:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by tixsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if your relationship has run it's course. You will lose any respect you have left for him by staying in a relationship that you don't enjoy, so it's time to let him go. He deserves someone who appreciates him and you need time alone to figure what you want. Learn to enjoy being on your own and you will have more idea of what you want when you met someone new. Being alone feels strange at first but go for it anyway. Good luck!
2006-11-01 05:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by annie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy what is the point of staying together. There will be somebody out there you just have to keep looking.Enjoy being single for a while.
Have fun with your friends,you may meet the man of your dreams that way.
2006-11-01 05:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything your boyfriend does annoys you, you owe it to yourself (and him) to let him know it is over. It is just unfair to him and yourself to attempt to continue a relationship with someone you don't like.
Why not buy a large cut-out figure of a man in cardboard and set it up in your living-room? It would be less annoying.
2006-11-01 05:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by simon2blues 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it think you already know that he isn't right for you, the more relevent question here is why don't you want to be on your own? maybe you should spend some time by yourself if you aren' comfortable being alone then you will never be comfortable in a relationship
2006-11-01 05:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think youv'e answered your own question. If everything he does annoys you and you don't fancy him. Why are you still with him? Its far better to be with someone who makes you happy.
2006-11-01 05:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by Am I bovered? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By asking this question I'm tempted to advise you to stay with him so that some other poor bloke doesn't get lumbered with someone so silly. But I guess that would be a bit cruel and harsh and get me a few thumbs down. Oh, what the heck .......
2006-11-01 05:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you dont know if you want a relationship or not, but it appears that you know you dont want to be in a relationship with your bf, so stop wasting his and your time, and break up
2006-11-01 05:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by chance m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋