I would like to have guys as common friends..Yes I am in love with another guy very much and I tell the guys from the start this but they just disappear and refuse to chat with me anymore even I know the guys. Why..I dont think they want me for GF so why do they split..I really can't understand.. giving me no reason so I am left confused.
2006-10-31 20:48:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not online friends..and these guys I know not Im friends!
2006-10-31 20:56:28 · update #1
Look in the mirror, or become rich.
2006-10-31 20:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know most of my friends are male, and a lot of them are married, this is because I don't trust most women. I have been stabbed in the back by so-called women friends, but I have never had a guy stab me in the back. I just talk to the guys like another guy would and tease with them and joke with them. I have had a lot of them come to me with their problems, and I listen to them and when they ask for advice, I give my point of view. This is why they respect me. I don't got to bed with them. I am a 56 almost 57 year old divorced woman 2X. I was still friends with both of my exs until they passed away.
Maybe they are afraid of your boyfriend or maybe you should wait until you get to know the guys before you start giving them the rundown of your life.
2006-11-01 05:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about online or in person?
Online.....most guys are there for one reason. Even if the say they want to be "friends"....what does it always go back to?
In person, maybe they are afraid that your bf would be upset.
I agree, there is nothing wrong with having male friends. Sometimes it is good to get the advice of the opposite sex without any personal feelings involved.
2006-11-01 04:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by c_my_blueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of my friends are women.
why I avoid some women with a bf.
bf is jealous and who wants to fight his imagination,
also who wants a friend that is a girl and she wants a bf that is jealous?
she has interest in me and is looking for an upgrade..
who wants someone that is always looking for (and finding) an upgrade.
If I am interested in the woman(more than friends) and she has a bf/husband then I will leave out of respect for HIS relationship with her.
more..
maybe you are sending mixed signals
I leave those women too.
who wants more confusion in their life?
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2006-11-01 05:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u say that u told ur guy frens that u liked another guy?
as a guy myself i understand.. guys wouldnt want to mix with a girl who already likes another guy.. like myself.. i liked a girl but later on she had a bf and i juz leave her and nv talks to her anymore.. that was years back.. as for u, if u want common frens.. u dun have to rush things up.. juz chill and make the guys feel comfortable hanging around with u.. its good to spend more time with them so that they will feel better abt u.. go enjoy together.. and juz be urself..
2006-11-01 04:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by WM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly what do u usually do with them? May b u are such a boring person, sorry sweet? Are u still looking 4 friends?
2006-11-01 04:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by badboy22bs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....probably the guys are looking for a girlfriend or a wife and dont want to waste time with someone who just wants to discuss the weather or a sale at the shoe shop etc.......
2006-11-01 05:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to understand these things conceptually. the fact is "jise apki life mai aana he wo na chahte huae bhi aa jayga" relations are made in heven dont try to rule the world by your wish. o.k ji and remember
dont let become some1 priority in life if they think it as part time.
2006-11-01 05:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by deepak_phy06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sh - on net a lot of guys are looking for gf's etc. so u gotta be patient abt it...and sure, nothing is wrong with you or yr expectations...and yea - we can be friends too if u like :) take care
2006-11-01 04:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Amit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋