My husband trys to avoid to make love to me. Before we get married we used to do it twice a day and now I don't know he just need an excuse.I am worried and ask him what is wrong but he alwayes jok on it. Even in the middle of sex his feeling start dying and we hardly finsh.
Note. We have been together for six years but we get married a few mothes ago.
2006-10-31 20:42:32 · 8 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-31 20:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he doing drugs or on pain killers? Some medication can reduce libido. He may have feelings for someone else but don't jump to the cheating conclusion too quick. If he's not cheating and you start accusing or being suspicious, that's the worst thing a faithful man can hear. Perhaps he has a low sex drive and was over doing things til he married you. Now he's comfortable. Either way, somethings wrong especially if it's worrying you or you need more intimacy. You have to ask him what's up but try to not crush his ego when you do it.
Sorry... just read that you've been together for 6 years. That's a long time so yes perhaps you need to spice it up but usually men will take any sex over no sex. The fact that he wants none is weird. Perhaps he has homosexual tendencies that he is hiding because he wants the house, the kids, the life etc. Lots of gay men live these lies.
2006-11-01 04:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either his is not interested in you anymore and cheating on you, or he has a medical problem. Ask him to talk to a doctor, if he refuses then he has no concern for you and you should leave him.
2006-11-01 04:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mystie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just bored of it. Don't worry, he'll want to start up again after a long while.
2006-11-01 04:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's bored.....Plain and simple. Take it upon yourself to do something COMPLETELY UNPLANNED AND WAY WAY OUT OF THE ORDINARY....Go have sex in the car, in a public place.....Do something that takes him out of his comfort zone.
You do that and next thing you know he'll be eating out of your hand.
2006-11-01 04:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
for men, mental picture is essential. Try to trigger it for him. You have to remain sexy for him to turn him on. study, research, explore new avenues.
2006-11-01 04:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by amir27070 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he has a medical problem --- he should see a doctor first
2006-11-01 04:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants it to be special
do you really wanna ruin it for him?
2006-11-01 04:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by blah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋