my boy friend is studying abroad. our relationship is good and we chat almost everyday.
recently, he became a little glacial, e.g chat with me not very often , feel tired... I know he is very busy with his study recently and got exams. But is that is proper reason?
WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW ???
2006-10-31 20:28:36 · 8 answers · asked by bluesky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him, you should trust him and not assume the worst. Just give it time....
2006-10-31 20:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by cutebastardette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its a proper reason...since he's abroad u cannot know in what kinda circumstances he's studying and if he is doing part-time job for his living its really difficult for him to find enough time to study itself then how do u expect him to sit and chat with u all the while?? Wait until he's free from his exams and stuff...he'll get back to u!! All the Best :)
2006-11-01 05:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by Harish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has he been gone? My bf is gone a lot also. He is a long haul driver. We chat 5-10 times a day. I would give him the benefit of the doubt as far as the exams.......but that doesnt go on all the time. If he continues to be cool and distant....something is going on. If that is the case, it is better to end it now. Don't waste you time. Life is way to short. Be sure to confront him. Let him know how you are feeling before you make any move.
2006-11-01 04:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by c_my_blueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets be real, his some where in another country alone. 4 sure his having fun, what would u do if it were u. i like to keep it real. its life and its not fair.it college, he must have fun. and he will have girls on him trust me. Especially if he is a pretty boy. So hold ur self and just have not 2 blame his. a guy has 2 do what he has 2 do. Sorry, but he will still love u. i would think
2006-11-01 05:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by oru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it is!!! his studying for the future and most probably for the future of the both of you if certainly you were meant for each other!!! give him a break and you should be proud and happy for him!!!
2006-11-01 04:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space, pay attention to small details, make sure he knows you still love him (dont go around saying i love you ilove you and so on) but I dont know send a supportive ecard and stufff like that. We also get depressed sometimes and sall stuff helps us.
2006-11-01 04:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by et3rn4l_j0k3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The future bring you the answers.
2006-11-01 04:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mmmm it sounds more like he is giving you a brush off --- for whatever reason ---- that you will need to find out
2006-11-01 04:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋