Do you think that God chooses certain people to get happiness and certain people to never attain it? Or do you think that it is something that we must do for ourselves? I know of bad people who have a great life, and I feel that I am a good person, yet I am all alone. I feel very unloveable and left out sometimes.
2006-10-31 19:15:33 · 19 answers · asked by BONNI 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
God loves you! God will deliver you, He'll keep you under His protection with His awesome love!
Thank God for whatever situation you are in; He will carry you through if you trust and believe....Have faith in God!
God chooses us, we don't choose Him; All souls belong to God!
In Christ you should find happiness in whatever circumstance you are in.
Keep in mind one thing...That Satan blesses those who do his will, difference being...Satan's things are temporal....God's blessings are eternal, Praise God!
2006-10-31 19:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
God chooses people who seek Him. God loves everyone in the world. Certain people might claim to be happy, but that happiness only lasts for so long. Without God in your life you have nothing. I had to find this out the hard way. It is so sad that you feel as you do. Just start praying to God and ask him into your life. Prayer is very strong when it comes from the heart and not just words. Love will come especially if you pray to God. If you need more information email me.
2006-10-31 20:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by love my Lord 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God gave us free will and the live we lead is completly up to use. God does not decide who gets a good life and who does not.
You are really never a lone if you have god in your life. I know it sound stupid, but if you feel unloved try a puppy. They love you no matter what.
Getting out more and meeting different people might help you. If you already get out a lot you may want to change where you are going, try a few new places.
2006-10-31 19:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hers a fact you might want to consider there are a lot of lonely people so if you are one of many why can you all not find each other. I was a counselor for years and when I heard someone say what you have I direct them to the many places that lonely people are and suggest they find another. The grocery store is a place everybody goes and lots of them are lonely so ask question like what did they do with the tuna, or where do you supose they hide the honey
You could be ingenious like this one woman who approached me in a grocery parking lot. As I came near my car I heard say loudly nearly a scream, Oh my God somebody help me. I went over and she told me I am so afraid of bugs and there is a really big one in my car please get it for me. I looked in and there on the seat was a dragonfly dead and motionless. I took it out and dropped it and she looked at me and said thank so much,,, how can I ever repay your kindness, I would really like to,,, anything really. I said no thinks was needed and was in a hurry so left quickly. As I was getting into my car I saw her pick up the bug and put it back in the carseat.
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2006-10-31 19:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God is in Control of Our Salvation
Ephesians 1:3-14
God’s sovereignty extends over all things. Because He is omnipotent (all powerful), no plan of His can be stopped (Luke 1:37). He is also omniscient (all knowing), so nothing is hidden from His sight (Hebrews 4:13). What’s more, He is omnipresent, which means that all things exist in His presence (Psalm 33:13-15; Colossians 1:16-17). Everything in both the natural and spiritual realms — including our salvation — are under His complete control.
The Scriptures describe mankind as having hearts that are deceitful (Jeremiah 17:9), minds that suppress truth (Romans 1:18-19), and wills that have turned away from the Lord (Isaiah 53:6). God, however, is continually seeking us. He’s issued a universal call inviting everyone to freely come to Him (John 3:16). He has declared it isn’t His will that anyone perish (2 Peter 3:9), nor does He take pleasure in the death of the wicked (Ezekiel 33:11). He desires that all come to a knowledge of the truth — namely, that there is just one God, sin separates us from Him, and only faith in Jesus reconciles us to Him (1 Timothy 2:4-6).
But Scripture teaches that none of us seek God (Romans 3:11); we can take no credit for our salvation. The desire to know Him comes through the Spirit’s work of convicting hearts of sinfulness and providing the faith to believe in Jesus as Savior (Ephesians 2:8). Salvation is all of God from first to last.
The heavenly Father chose a people for Himself from among the ungodly (Ephesians 1:11 NIV; Romans 4:5). Ask the Holy Spirit to help you grasp the immensity of divine grace, love, and mercy.
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2006-10-31 19:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, there is the theory of karma and reincarnation whereby you keep reincarnating until you pay off the karma you've created in previous lifetimes. So you've been a good person in this lifetime, but what about previous lifetimes?
It's the only thing that adequately explains why a newborn baby (who's never done anything wrong) might be born with an affliction and lives an entire lifetime of strife, and pain. (Perhaps to pay off what he/she did in a previous lifetime?)
Just food for thought ...... I'm just sayin' .....
PS .... you are NOT unloveable. We all have worth. You must find yours!
2006-10-31 19:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Romans 3:12 says there is NONE that are good so NO your not good only in Christ do you have any chance of being pronounced good. Have you concidered the ending of those who are not of Christ [which is not our call to make] my joy is centered in Christ Jesus, yes sometimes I am alone too, my email address is wgr88@yahoo.com now do not use messanger but I will talk to you IF you write. also there is free bible lessons at www.itiswritten.com God bless, but the reason I am and you are left BY GOD this way is now very plane to me, so when others in YOUR situation see you, and see Christ in you despite your situation they might be tempted to turn from there plath and follow you into Heaven. Thank God that He is useing you Just as you are. Hay visit A Seventh Day Adventist Church in your area, again God bless.
2006-10-31 19:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by wgr88 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Welcome to the real world. But feeling unlovable is a problem inside you - not in the rest of the world. You need to address it. Stare at yourself in the mirror (figuratively). What is it about you that makes you feel this way? If you feel this way inside then it is projected to the outside world and becomes the way other people see you. You might need some help to discover the problem. A good head-shrinker could help. A clergy might also be good if that is more your bent.
But look inside for your answer.
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2006-10-31 19:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by Alan 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is only natural to feel this way but try not to dwell on it for it will not last forever and don't try to compare other people to yourself just because it appears they have a great life doesn't mean they will have a great eternal life , and god does not choose, he loves and is concerned for everyone, we are the ones who make the choice.
2006-10-31 19:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think god has nothign to do with it....you can obtain happiness yourself...look at it...you can have the greatest intentions and sit at home all day and od NOTHING that's on YOU....you can also be a murderer...and work hard for a good job and save your money ahve a nice house and car..... the actions you make and what you get in return are created by you and you alone....
Some people think "well how can i be rich im a nobody" Well who are they to say they're nobody? Find what you want , believe in it and make it happen...God's only watching
2006-10-31 19:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by joeknockz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please don't feel unloveable!
Some people get plenty of earthly stuff, since it may be all they ever get. Some people have less, since they have a strength that others lack.
Maybe you're just more gifted than others? If it's just earthly stuff like money, success, etc....you're not missing much.
Just trust in God and stay small. As soon as you surrender, good things will come your way!
Best of luck to you.
2006-10-31 19:19:39 · answer #11 · answered by bhamjeff2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋