My bf of 2 years lied to me so many times, and he joined all these dating sites. when i found out, i broke up with him. But that month was hell, so i took him book and he promised not to get involved with that again and to be honest. I did however, make a fake profile on one of his sites though, and tonight he just happened to email me thats he interested. Out of all the girls he could have emailed...what a twist of fate huh? I point blank asked him if he had been back to those sites tonight, he said no.
What do i do now? I want to hurt him real bad to be honest, but not the go to jail kinda hurt. Whats a good way of making him feel like the piece of sh*t he is?
2006-10-31 18:56:23 · 25 answers · asked by Freaked out 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well....shhhhh,guys would kill me to say this,but....if he has a nice carrrrrr? i didnt say that. but the word asshole keyed on the roof,hood,doors and trunk would do nicely.or even cheating ******!
2006-10-31 18:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a dude but if i were you, I would just answer back the email and just string him along with whats his day was like, things that turn him, basically stuff that will keep him interested and wanting more. Dont ask him if he has a girl or delve too deeply in his personal life or else he'll get suspicous. Dont give any contact info like ur cell or where u live cuz he might check up on that. Eventually, tell him that you want to meet up at a place, tell him what you'll be wearing, the time, etc., Make sure ur saving all the transcripts so ull have proof! When the time comes to meet him, let him wait at the place for a few min and then come in. Act like it was a random chance and feed some story to why u were there if he asks and then ask whats he doing there? Once he gives u the b.s story, just lay everything on him- the transcripts and everything!!! Now that he knows that hes been caught, he has no wriggle room! Make sure that prior to the meeting that u have all his clothes packed so that when he gets home, hes immediately out of there and can come back later for the rest of his stuff. Make sure you have a friend present at both the meeting (to add insult to injury) and at the house (in case **** hits the fan). How long you want to do this is up to you, id recommend a couple of weeks or til ur satisifed... Good luck with everything!!
2006-11-01 03:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by ugo e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of the saying "Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me". OK another saying you need to get into your head is once a liar, always a liar. I feel sympathy for you because you love a man who will never change and will not stop hurting you. I've been there more than once and every time I went back to such a man I ended up being angrier every time. What ever you do please don't go back. I bet you are so angry at him sometimes you could hurt him and then want him back again the next minute. Unfortunately sometimes the more we love someone, the more we hate them when they hurt us. I have contemplated doing unbelievable things to men who have hurt me but have never gone through with it. DO NOT DAMAGE HIS PROPERTY this will only make you look petty and stupid, how typically white trash. If you want to walk away with your head held high with dignity do just that-take the higher road. Indignation and anger are the hardest things to get out of your soul and I have lived months upon months with them ruling my emotions every day and have survived sleepless enranged night after sleepless enraged night till I got through it. Remember that if you feed your anger it will only grow and make you bitter. Try to start feeling the pain and let the anger go even if it means you long and cry for him for months. Don't let his actions lower you to his level and don't try to play his game because you won't win. He simply does not have enought of a conscience to be hurt by anything you do. Walk away knowing you maintianed class so when you meet the next nice guy down the road you are still on a higher level and have not lowered yourself to your ex's level.
2006-11-01 03:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Nurse Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then start emailing himt hrough that account. Begin an 'internet' relationship. HAve him meet this girl somewhere, a date and a time. Make sure to call him on his phone before he is suposed to meet her, see if he lies to you. He probably will. Then when he expects her, show up, see if he can put 2+2 together. He should.
He is a jerk, you are smart to want to end it.
2006-11-01 03:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, why even bother? Drop him, and move on with your life... he's not worth putting your life on holding and obsessing over this.
But if you have to... set up the date, someplace public, like a restaurant. When you meet him and he sees you, let that "oh sh*t" feeling settle for a bit. Then go after him and explain that you knew what he was doing, that you set it up as sort of a fantasy, like strangers meeting for the first time.
Then you take him to someplace private (women's room! Or whichever is accessible), and get all his clothes off, like you're about to "get it on" in this fantasy. Be aggressive... don't let him touch you, but take off all his clothes (what you have to do to keep him interested, that's up to you.) Finally, tell him to close his eyes and relax.
When he does, quietly pick up his clothes and RUN!
Oh, and see if you can set it up so you have a friend film him coming out of the bathroom.
2006-11-01 03:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by IceTrojan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has taken the bait hook line and sinker...now reel him in slowly and make it fun. Get him so interested in the ` fake you online` that when he can`t have you he is in agony. Then dump him when he comes crawling to you. Never let him know about the game that you have played and that will leave him with more regrets.
2006-11-01 03:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by pscassidy100 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's ridiculous that he did that. Obviously, if he's lying right to your face you can't trust him. Even so, the fact that you had to make a fake profile to "test" him shows a lack of trust.
Without trust there is no relationship.
I've personally always said if I get cheated on I will bust their charade on cheaters. lol. Public humiliation is pure bliss.
2006-11-01 03:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by cutebastardette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..fate was on your side that you found out he hasn't stopped cheating on you. At least you're now sure of what a lousy guy he is. So juz tell him you're bored with him cos his built is too small, in more ways than one :) Forget the guy...he's not worth it.
2006-11-01 03:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's already a piece of sh*t, now that you've proven it, don't let him waste any more of your time than he already has. Getting even only gives him the satisfaction of knowing how badly he hurt you. Just leave.
2006-11-01 03:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's obviosly an ***, leave him.
Other than that, revenge never works out as well as you would hope. You are doing yourself more damage by dwelling on it than you could ever do to him. Besides, it soulds like he will hurt himself more than you could ever hurt him as well.
Sometimes just removing yourself from it and watching him **** everything up all on his own is funner than trying to get revenge.
2006-11-01 03:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by palu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on w the connection and meet him- that should expose his bold faced lie- sounds like he does not have much of a conscience- sorry - D
2006-11-01 03:00:13 · answer #11 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋