Have you ever been in a situation where the best thing you could do...is the hardest thing you've ever done? Like moving on from a relationship you know you still longed for but its bad to be at because you are not treated right? He cheated--kissed another girl. I was betrayed and hurt yet I still love him. I want to be angry and mad but I feel everyone makes mistakes and just forgive and work things out. In the other hand, I dont want to be treated like this again.
2006-10-31 18:53:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen to me carefully okay, if your man had the guts to cheat on you it means that he did not value what you shared so why should you. sweetie the biggest mistake you will ever do is going back cause if you do he will know that you love him too much and he will take advantage of your love and hurt you knowing that you will always come back.
you are attracted by his charm and not the inside part of him and girl that is infatuation. do not be fooled by this self-centered ,inconciderate,cruel bastered .you are better than that and he has no right what so ever to hurt you or make you cry especially when he says he loves you. i was in your situation before so stop while you still can okay. if you want to make it easier start seeing someone else who is worth you love and who will appriciate it and not abuse it . luv yah and goodluck.
2006-10-31 19:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess everyone had to be there at some point of time... i think what hurts most is to break up with the one you love because he didn't trust you that much, when he chose to believe other people than u and even if u slap the evidences in his face and prove to him that u were the one telling the truth but he keep his eyes close from the reality... and after your efforts, u will found out that it was him who cheated on you, and barely after a month, he's already into a new relationship,.. that sucks, right....
2006-11-01 03:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by kish-kish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like u should move on. If he cheated, he obviously doesn't want u. (sorry to say)
It is sad that things turned out this way but u need to move forward not backwards. Find someone better
2006-11-01 02:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by dcutegirl06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u an animal he can treat how he feels?? U felt hurt and he betrayed u?? Can u continue love some1 like dat?? Can u love some1 who doesn't have a moral??Take a gud decision..Gud luck n my sympathy
2006-11-01 03:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Glamorous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Entirely up to you, though once the trust is gone, even if you do forgive it is hard to forget, I reckon sometimes its better to do the hard thing who knows, what the future holds? Keep you dignity.
Good Luck
2006-11-01 03:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really personal preferrence , and i do think from your statement you know you deserve better and yes i had to really do something difficult i dont think i should go on here with it if you are really that curious e mail me and i can be more specific but always be true to yourself and dont let anyone rob you of your happiness
2006-11-01 02:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by A c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please love someone who loves you back and RESPECTS you. Ask yourself if he thought about you while he was pressing his lips on another girl's and embracing her in his arms?? Sorry I know that hurts but he's just not worth your time. Move on
2006-11-01 03:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. When it doesn't feel right it isn't right. Go get your nails done and get a new hair cut. Let him go.
2006-11-01 03:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by bleunumen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might not be hard if you consider that you would be in a one sided relationship...it's prolly the disappointment you having trouble dealing w/...srry 4 your loss...things will change in time...good luck :)
2006-11-01 02:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everyone gets to that place in there life sometimes i screwed my chance up if u love him tell him
2006-11-01 02:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by sandy k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋