He tells me I am beautiful, we cuddle and spend tons of time together - just havent kissed. Think it has anything to do with the fact he just broke up with his GF of 7 years, and is unsure?
2006-10-31 18:37:24 · 19 answers · asked by t_sunrise 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably........have you talked to him about it ?
2006-10-31 18:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First things first, are you dating him? Are you going on dates, etc? If you are then maybe he's just afraid to make the next move. He has been in a relationship for 7 years, that's a long time. He was so used to that one person and hasn't dated in a long time. He is prob just nervous. Men are scared to make the first move cause they dont want to be turned down. You need to show him your interested in him and maybe you should try making a move and see what he does. But I think first you need to make sure he's into you. I've had "guy friends" who i never did anything with and i still cuddled with them, they were like my guy best friend but just different cause i felt that they were there for me emotionally. What I'm trying to say, is make sure he likes you more than a friend and then try and let him know your interested in him and maybe make a move.
2006-10-31 18:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no , i think it has nothing to do with his ex., he is just shy.. trust me., im having the same problem right now.. actually , i just posted a question last night here if how would i know if my girl can already be kissed. we also have been together for 2 months and i havent kissed her yet, we too do a lot of hugging but never kissed her. maybe you girls should show us some sign..to make it easier for us. Lol!
2006-10-31 18:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by IneedHelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats surprising
is he shy? it doesnt seem like it. Kind of strange, if you cuddle then i would think it might come naturally. I dont know if it has anything to do with the breaking up of his ex, after all you have been seeing eachother for 2 months. maybe you should make the first move and see what happens
2006-10-31 18:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by Esme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that could be, maybe he knows sometimes kissing leads to "other things" and he is scared to get attached. if u are that unsure about it, talk to him. see what the problem is. or if u are confident then u make the move and kiss him. it doesnt have to be a sloppy, tongue in mouth kiss. just a lil peck on the lips at first. or maybe he isnt the kissing type. who knows. but i say u make a move girl, dont be shy !!! :) good luck
2006-10-31 18:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by jill_look_good_enuff_to_eat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U've just told dat he had broke up wid his 7 yr gf??Well, he is shy and hesistant to do the first step to kiss u b'coz he feels scared if ever u 2 break up and he might then regret having kissed u..Do the 1st step, be casual and try to assure him that u'll be loyal..don't be shy and on the right moment, do kiss him..gudluck.
2006-10-31 18:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by Glamorous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is so mixed up emotionally, and physically, Im sure he wants to kiss you, but is afraid because he might still be in love with his ex. But also Im sure he wants sex, so he is cuddling and getting close because that is natural, however because of that obstical of not kissing, he won't even do that.
He is with you and spending nights with you because it gives him security, and comfort that he is looking for right now. GIve it time.
2006-10-31 18:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by runningtuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not want to commit right now because he is still attached emotionally to his ex girl friend. He's trying to get over it through this platonic relationship, hoping that one day he will feel confident about his feelings for you. He's a good guy. Give him more time.
2006-10-31 19:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Pierrot le fou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow- he must have some great self control- and that is quite and accomplishment- maybe he is still suffering from the loss of the last breakup- 7 years is a long time- take it easy- and slow = that is fine- D
2006-10-31 18:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you want to and he doesn't. If that's the case, just give some time and try to be as patient and loving as possible. I'm sure that he'll come around soon!
2006-10-31 18:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is scared to get his feelings hurt again. but i think that the next time you are alone with him you should make the first moved. why not try. two months passed already.
2006-10-31 18:46:35 · answer #11 · answered by SexXyBaCK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋