How do i know if this girl likes me, but has a boyfriend?

Question

Ok here is the situation,she has a boyfriend, been going out for 3 in ahalf yrs and going..when i first got her #, we talked from sunset to sunrise literally for 2 weeks about.. we hang out and stuff ( one on one)..she texts me, "we should hang out more often", of course we hang out & get closer.. she invites me to one of her shows when her boyfriend is there, after the show, i give her flowers and suprise her.. we hang out 3 days after the show, and i spill my guts and tell her how i feel,"the more than friendship talk"..that same weekend was my bday.. she knows that i like her,and she lives pretty far from me. she comes up and suprises me to say happy bday,stays for 30 minutes, then leaves to go to another party by where she lives..,i just dont get it..seriously help me, before i dig myself into a deeper hole..should i stay or go?

Answer 1

RUNNNN, girls are aliens. haha, jk. I am a little bitter about girls right now, because my girl broke up with me for another guy, and he was a dick to her. so I stick with what I said, RUNNN.

Answer 2

you ought to have confidence your boyfriend won't do something along with her because you 2 have been relationship for over a 300 and sixty 5 days. and if she does attempt to make a pass on him the two your boyfriend or you ought to set her rapidly and tell her which you 2 have been in a dating for an favourite and tell her to stay out of your buisness and enable her comprehend that your guy is taken!

Answer 3

She has been in a relationship for a while. Although she is definately expressing interest in you, it is hard to tell if she is unhappy with her current relationship, or is happy and just likes you too. Either way, it will be hard for her to leave the security and familiarity that she has with her current relationship.

How important is she to you, how much do you like her?

If you don't think you would want to just be friends with her, then give it up, cause that may be all you ever get. If you really like her, then stick with it, you may get what you want.,

Answer 4

I'm not saying she isn't worth it...,but aren't you?.. You told her how you felt and still it's a guessing game..Stop playing..There are so many woman who want a quality guy and you sound like one..Quit wasting your time on someone who's taken..You never know..There may be a girl who actually likes you and you haven't noticed..Your a single guy so find a single girl..Take care of you..The girl will follow.. Stay sweet.

Answer 5

well she could have come to "suprise" you, but in reality she might have been wonderin if you would take a chance to do sumthing with her. She could have left because she had pryer obligations, but who really knows, i say go for it, the worst thing that could happen is denial, yea it sux, but atleast you wont be wonderin, " what if " for the rest of your life. Remember, you only get one shot at life, so you better make it count!

Answer 6

Get out of it, it's probably not going to end well and you should leave before you wind up looking like you have no self respect. I did this when I was about 17 and again to yet another guy when I was in my early-mid 20s. It's messed up and I still don't fully understand why I did it. Each time I was nearing the end of a longish (about 3 years) relationship. I think I was my way of trying to find out if there was any hope out there for me to find another boyfriend if I were to leave my current relationship.

When I was 17, my boyfriend was 20 and we had been together for about 3 years. During that time I had changed a lot, mostly because I had really become immersed in the underground music scene. He didn't go to shows at all and I was sort of getting bored with that. I struck up some sort of weird friendship/semi-romance with a kid my age that went to shows like I did. We talked on the phone for hours, etc.. I never told my boyfriend and it lasted about a month and a half. One day I woke up and the thought of him and what I was doing made me sick. Just like that, I dropped him like a rock and stayed with my boyfriend. The kid was really upset and everything was very awkward after that.

I did it again 3 months later with another guy I met at a show but that time, after about 2 weeks worth of 7-8 hour long distance phone calls, I dumped my boyfriend for the guy. My boyfriend had no idea it was coming and he was heartbroken. I did it over the phone and then didn't speak to him again for 2 years after that. The new guy had also dumped his girlfriend for me. We wound up spending the next 2 and a half years in a stupid long distance relationship that ended badly. I partially blame it on the fact that I went from one relationship to another where they basically overlapped.

The next time I did it was when I was in another 2-3 year relationship that was going horribly. I felt he was treating me badly and I just needed to feel that someone liked me. I started another weird phone/texting related friendship/romance with a guy I had known for awhile. I mostly enjoyed talking to him after my boyfriend and I fought. Having him constantly telling me how badly he wanted me really boosted my ego and made me feel much better. I kept telling him things like how I'd totally be with him if it wasn't for the fact that I was already in a relationship. I think I did actually believe that for awhile. Now I know I was leading him on because I wanted to know that someone would be there for me if my boyfriend broke up with me. I ended that after about 2 months when things got a little better with my boyfriend. Of course when my boyfriend and I did finally break up, I never called that other guy back.

I did it one last time with another guy after that. Again, I ended it randomly one day because I realized I wanted to stay with my boyfriend. It's pretty simple, however you want to look at it it's just called cheating. Cheating isn't always about sex. It can be an emotional thing as well. It can start as a friendship that very quickly becomes intense and somewhat romantic. It can end abruptly and leave people feeling very hurt and confused.

I really sounds like you may be involved with a girl that's possibly doing what I did when I was younger. It sounds like it's a little more than just a friendship especially if she knows that you like her and she's allowing this to continue this way. She may never leave her boyfriend and even if she does, there's no reason to believe she'll come running to you. Even if she dumped the guy tomorrow, you should think twice about getting involved with someone that's fresh out of a relationship. There's something not very nice about what she's doing and it looks like you might get hurt.

Answer 7

that's a tough one. i think she may be caught in between her feelings for her bf and you. of course it sounds like she may really like you. maybe even more than you know. you just have to understand that she has been with this guy for a while and sh's afraid of letting go. so it would probally be wise to let her know how you feel but let her choos and don't pressure her.... that makes it worse trust me.... and if not you guys can still be close friends right?

Answer 8

Think about this man: if she's got a boyfriend and she's flirting with you, she'll probably do the same thing if she starts dating you. It's not worth it man. She might be a nice girl, but she sounds shady. My advice: Don't do it.

Answer 9

You act being with other girl who is cute and then if she is jealous of her then she in crush with you. And if you don't find it leave her b'coz when she is so egoistic then why do you go behind her. Aren't you self esteemed?

Answer 10

Think you should go befog thing get in seriously and you dig deeper in hole