I dont understand. I am always depressed for no reason,i can never be happy..i feel ungrateful,its like i have no feelings..i mean i do,but i show no emotions..its like i cant...and not only that im very cranky...and always moody,I get jealous for stupid reasons also...and dont feel like being active anymore with friends or anything. I've kind of always been like this,but now im 19 going on 20 and it seems to be getting even worse!! also i cant stand my family and dont want anything to do with them,not just my parents or siblings..i mean everyone!
What is wrong with me!!!please serious answers! I've been thinking of seeking help,but im not sure whats even wrong with me.
2006-10-31 18:25:09 · 17 answers · asked by yahooaddict 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
what do you really want?
what are you waiting for?
2006-10-31 18:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by sista! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn this is truly a modern day plague, I know so many girls like you its a sign of the times , I really wonder what the next generations will act like.anyhow here is my answer::this life is too short to be miserable, it is so very finite and precious, but in the end nothing matters at all.In 200 yrs you and everything you say and do will be completely forgotten, eventually noone will ever remember you its a totally a waste of time just a futile effort... if you can stare this fact in the face and be ok with it, that is true courage, to understand our true insignificance in the universe is overwhelming.It doesent matter how pretty you are how much money you make,or if you ever become famous. The best things in life aren't things, its being comfortable with yourself when you don't care about what other people think about you, it is only possible then that you can be content with who you are.there is no way to happiness, happiness is the way
2006-11-01 02:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend has the same problem. We have been together since we were 15 now 23. This has caused several setbacks in our relationship. In her case it is her Mother's fault through years of metal abuse. I can't say what you problem is but for some reason you seem to not be able to handle small problem therefore creating bigger problems. You sound like you need a friend to just talk with. That is usually the best remedy. What ever you decide to do take action fast because it will only get worse. Good luck and God bless.
2006-11-01 02:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by whitetrashwithmoney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being completly serious it sounds like you have a problem with depression and it might help to talk to someone or possibly even seek profesional help i have been fighting it for a long time and am just getting to the point where i feel more comfortable with myself and hanging out with friends but still have my days when i am moody and dont want to do anything or be around anyone if you want you can email me or im me on yahoo and i will listen or try to offer advice when i can and it will not go any farther than me and you
2006-11-01 02:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by ohiocowboy1277 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you need someone to talk to more, send to wvanbokk@tulane.edu
Welcome to my world.
I find that hard physical work helps a lot. Sitting in dorm room and interneting (not officially a word, but it is now!!!) does not. I demolish houses damaged by Katrina and do taekwondo pretty seriously. Helps for reasons neither I nor modern medicine fully understand, but the effect is well-documented.
Also, force yourself to socialize even when you don't really want to. Talking to other people helps a lot, even more than hard work.
As for family problems, once again welcome to my world. Parents are divorced. Mom is nice but very annoying. Dad is know-it-all who drives me crazy sometimes. I suppose I still love them, but I did move very far away from both of them for college.
As for what you have, sounds like depression feeding off of natural antisocial tendencies, although the crankyness could just be sleep deprivation or stress.
2006-11-01 03:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by Acraz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your pushing people away for some reason. I think a counselor would defiantly be helpful. A counselor can't solve all your problems but can help guide you through the process of exploring issues you may have not dealt with. We all have issues. Nothing is wrong with you. Just sounds like this is a bad point in your life. You will get through this!
2006-11-01 02:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by CorinneI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At times i also feel the same but dont think that no one likes u just express ur feelings and be open minded be cool and relax urself u will feel better mix with different people and share ur feelings iam sure it would help u if not then go to a doctor and dont hide ur feelings at any cost just express ur self clearly.
2006-11-01 02:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by rose21 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a depression screening and be treated by a counselor. You may need medications too. Dont keep living in unhappiness, get help now! You will be glad you did
you might also try getting out in the sunlight more and eating chocolate
2006-11-01 02:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like garden variety depression( clinical) . it is very trendy today so do not feel guilty or strange. you are in good company and there are many cures and a lot of help. you must start by seeing a psychologist, I suggest cognitive tehrapy but usually they send you to a psychiatrst and you get drugs. But they do help a lot. there is a lot to be depressed about but hang in there and wait and see life may have some wonderful surprises for you.
2006-11-01 02:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r main problem is u loose u r confiedance level so u felling alonely and depressness u must required to boost up u r confiedance and try to live with happinaess and u know when u wii be hapyy in every condition then u realize that u will change u can more disscus with on victor _ jhon love may be i help u good luck
2006-11-01 02:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by ravi k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be that way, I went to talk to a doctor and belive me it helped a lot, they told me to sit down for a few minutes each day and write down my feelings for that day, also I wrote down what makes me so unhappy. I was on meds for a short time with no side effects, now I still feel unhappy at times but no nearly half as much. Good luck
2006-11-01 02:33:17 · answer #11 · answered by nicky 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋