like im dating this guy named casey i really like him i love him more than anything but there is this other guy named seth i like him alot well the other day he asked me when his kid was born if i would be the mom and i said yes i just found out this moring that he liked me but i like him to but i like casey and i dont know wha to do plz help!
2006-10-31 18:05:49 · 13 answers · asked by csbabyangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What ever you do DON'T HAVE ANY KIDS!!!!!
2006-10-31 18:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by Barry DaLive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seth asked you whether you want to be the mother of his child and this is serious stuff. You say that you find out this morning that he likes you and this means that all of a sudden he told you that he likes you and that he wants to be the mother of his child... Wow. What is this rush for?
You don't have to decide so quickly, you can have your time. Being a mother is a serious job and it is not something you can do just by saying yes and giving up next morning.
I believe such things require more than just liking your partner. You need to settle down and reconsider all the things happened between you and Seth. You should consider this as a longterm relationship and you shouldn't haste.
2006-10-31 18:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by bogus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand...how can the guy ask you to be the mom of his child when its born...where is the real mom? I don't think you should say yes to being a mom unless you're committed for life and it doesnt sound like you are cos you're really confused about the two guys. you can't get involved with someone else - especially if there's a child involved - if you're involved with another guy.
2006-10-31 18:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose one. Make a list if necessary. Keep in mind the newer one will be more exciting and his bad qualities less obvious than the current bf, who's begun to let it all hang out.
2006-10-31 18:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DAMMIT FEMALES LIKE YOU PISS ME OFF!!!!!PEOPLE SAY ITS OK TO MAKE MISTAKES BUT DAM NOT IN A REALATION SHIP YOU MIGHT AS WELL DATE ALL THE GUYS CAUSE IF YOU GO FOR THAT SETH GUY ANOTHER WILL COME ALONG, AAAAHHHH WAY TO GO IM MAD NOW. JUST STICK WITH ONE OR BETTER YET DONT DATE AT ALL YOU JUST END UP HURTING YOURSELF AND OTHER AROUND YOU!
2006-10-31 18:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by Adrian N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just told a man that you would be the mom, thats a little messed up if you leave him, but the other guy his who you really like, follow your heart, is it the one with the baby, or the other, or maybe neither. What does your heart tell you, listen carefully
2006-10-31 18:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by runningtuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Mom taught me that if you can't choose between one or the other, you don't really want either. So there you go! You are not enough in love with either of them, to choose 1.
2006-10-31 18:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy. Well sit down and make the most logical choice. Vulcan logic never fails (if you watch star trek)
2006-10-31 18:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by KSJTam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey thats a tuff one u just need to ask yourself who do u love more ? who is the one u wakeup thinkin bout in the morning who is it u thats makes u laugh who makes u feel special hope i helped xx
2006-10-31 18:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by hunniswirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are way to young to know what you want.
And way too young to even think about having kids.
2006-10-31 18:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find another
u dont love either
2006-10-31 18:07:14 · answer #11 · answered by q6656303 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋