I find it hard to trust my boyfriend of 1.5 yrs who I live with, even though he has given me no reason to distrust him, and I feel overly jealous about stupid things. I dont like these emotions which our relationship brings out in me, and sometimes I feel that it would be easier to just start over, so to speak. We love each other but he is 10 years older than me, and seems still so immature. We have a lot of differences. But I always wonder if this is just love, you have to make sacrifices?
2006-10-31 17:34:12 · 6 answers · asked by ophierose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about seeing a marriage/relationship counselor?
2006-10-31 17:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is totally normal. i am also stupidly jealous about dumb things but guess what, i bet so is he. if he doesnt ever get jealous even when you do things purposely just to see if he cares, then well to me that isn't love. someone needs to be a little jealous to care for someone. i wouldnt trust that. Age shouldn't matter if you love him. You dont have to make sacrifices if you dont feel he will for you. Its a two way ship and well if you want to spend the rest of your life with him and condition to let it work out, then sure yes, you need to make sacrifices. its up to you and what you think is worth the ride or not. try a looong talk with him - spill it out and see how he feels
2006-10-31 17:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from the "serious relationship" for the duration of high school Im sure he would like to have a normal College life as well dating a 9th grader when you are a college guy is kinda iffy anyway you both have a lot of growing up to do and life tends to change people in these very formative years
2016-05-22 23:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't have to make sacrifices. If he is bringing negative feelings out in you, then he isn't the one for you. Love should make someone feel good about themselves; it should bring out the best.
Obviously love doesn't mean no disagreements but two people should be able to discuss them without demeaning the other.
I think that if you were to marry this guy you would be making a mistake & it wouldn't take you long to be miserable.
Don't waste anymore of your life on him; get out there and find someone who truly cares for you.
So like the old saying goes: There's plenty of fish in the ocean. You just need to find the right fish for you.
Good luck to you.
2006-10-31 17:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say give your relationship a break and take time to get to know yourself. you could do it while you are in a relationship but he and you will have many arguements until you learn what is going on with in you. maybe he is not trust worthy or maybe he is not the one. or maybe his age is a threat to you. or maybe his age makes him not understand you cuz he already been there done that and this leaves you alone with your issues. see a professional couselor for a bout 6 months and see how your life will change some direction. good luck.
2006-10-31 17:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow reading this was like reading about my life. i was in the same situation.. you are in love trust me you are. those feelings can just be because you are irritated with something else. Trust me things will work out. talk to him tell him how you are feeling about everything. I know jealousy sucks and i still sturggle with it, but for the stupid stuff let it go i know it sounds hard, and it is at first, but just let it go.
2006-10-31 17:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋