My b/f is so nice but I know when I finish Uni it will be over, cos he won't leave his life. So why am I carrying on? Is it better to finish it now (9 months before i leave), or just carry it on knowing this?
Thanks
2006-10-31 17:19:32 · 17 answers · asked by Robin 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How to save a life?
Huh? please expand. this sounds wise.
2006-10-31 17:23:03 · update #1
thanks for ur answers guys, (downloading the song) - I guess I know what I have to do.
2006-10-31 17:26:03 · update #2
leave him now, why prolong the inevitable
2006-10-31 17:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No sweetheart. Move on.
Don't waste your life it's too precious. You loved him and lost that's life I guess!. Now, find someone who really loves and appreciates you. Someone you can build your life with. You are young and more than likely beautiful. At this age you have the world at your feet. Y ou will have a bigger choice of young men than you will in 9 months time so make the break gently. Find a nice new young man. Don;t tell him everything until you know him well enough. Build a relationship with him and lets hope the future will be happier for you. Dont hanker for something you can't have or you will hurt yourself more. Don't leave it too late that you may or may not get married. When the time is ripe you will find someone who really loves you....who will not give you second hand love...who will put you on a pedestal, worship you and marry you. Good luck and may god bless and comfort you.
2006-11-01 01:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you have only been together 9 months and you are already having doubts. I suggest you end it now or come to some kind of agreement(Seeing each other as friends), because the longer you are with him, the more it will hurt in the end. No point in staying with him if you know it wont work out and you will most probably end up hurt.At least you are not living in a fantasy and you can take the punch.Maybe you will be able to handle the break up in the end. It all depends on you. You know yourself and him better than any of us.
2006-11-01 01:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the time you have together. You know it isn;t for the long haul so just be happy and thankful you found someone you care about.
It's always hard to say goodbye but don;t let that stop you from having a good time. Realisticly, we say goodbye to probably 80% of the people we meet throughout our lives, does that mean we should have never spent time with them? Of course not. This is how we learn lifes lessons through relationships, see if theres anything he can teach you.
2006-11-01 01:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is not to worry about him. The answer lies in yourself. If you already know where it's going, and you have nothing more to offer him but just your time, you're better off letting him go. No one likes to be dragged along for the ride. And you don't have to be harsh about it. Just tell him. Be as honest as possible. Plus by waiting 9 months until you leave you'll only end up hurting the both of you. You'll be holding yourself back and he'll end up confused.
2006-11-01 01:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by goldnsunrise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends how much you like him? If you like him enough, you will stay with him and see what happens - 9 months is a long time in a relashionship.
Your obviously carrying on cos you like him, so just stop worrying and enjoy him and being young.
2006-11-01 01:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by glitterbug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a bit of cred and some faith or he may well leave you people do like to be believed in you know and if he still does leave then more fool him and hes not the one and not worth a second thought
2006-11-01 01:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by nendlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont hv 2 leav now other wise u'll regret it ur whole life. beta he leavs u afta uni n' let him regret his whole life. u r special n' dont let anybody snatch it from u. if he leaves, believe me there will b' anotha 1!
good luck.
2006-11-01 01:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by Another face in the crowd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should leave him now before its too late
you will found guy other than him i mean better than him...who know right?so don't wasted your time anymore!!
2006-11-01 01:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by yeanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know how it will end then why are you asking the question?
are you playing a game with yourself?
are you being rational with yourself?
or are you being in denial with yourself?
or are you making emotional decisions which are usually bad ones. emotions can create irr-rational decisions ya know.
2006-11-01 01:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him - ask him how he thinks things will pan out after University.
Do it now, don't do anything rash - he may surprise you.
2006-11-01 01:41:30 · answer #11 · answered by Phlodgeybodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋