I'M 24 yrs old, business owner, home owner......i have accomplished a lot in my 24 years of life as far as being a young Entrepreneur and consider myself extremely lucky and blessed for what ive accomplished.....But why is it that i always fall for the wrong girls.....let me know ladies....i dont think of myself as a bad or cocky guy....im straight forward......and i dont think im a bad looking guy either ....but i have notice some females take advantage of my generosity......i mean i'm not dumb to see when a woman only wants to be with me for my money and well when i see that i end the relationships......but what is it that i can do to find someone true instead of a gold digger?
2006-10-31 17:17:02 · 15 answers · asked by MR.E 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah u should take da first answerer's advice, don't get into a serious relationship with her without knowing how sincere she is.
Be her friend first
2006-10-31 17:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't think I can say much about this, since I've never had a boyfriend. But I do know something that may help.
To start, I have a friend who is a guy, who I worked for for a while and who became one of my best friends. Through his work, he became rich, so to speak, and I got a good start. We now have two completely different lines of work, but maintained the friendship. We still do favors for each other a lot, but only started helping each other out after we became good friends. One day he told me that he only does favors for me. I was stunned and asked him if he had other friends (I had assumed he did). He said yes, but that he only helps me because I never ask him to.
Point is, I'm not taking advantage of his lofty position, and we remain good friends because of that. Maybe what you need to do is get to know a few women, without dating them (maybe if a friend introduces you to her, etc.) and get a sense of their character before dating them. And if you buy something for her, do something for her, anything like that, make it special, as in not something you do all the time. From what I understand, you just have had some terrible luck so far. I wish you luck in finding someone who's true.
2006-11-01 01:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by dragon8rider2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention where you meet these girls. Maybe you are looking in the wrong places (pub, club etc) or maybe you are just "looking". Slow down and enjoy your success. Don't look too desperately for love - it will come to you in time. There are gals out there that aren't just after your wallet. Maybe you present yourself as a influential, rich chap. (I mean, what car do you drive) Try not mentioning what you have accomplished when meeting girls, play it down for awhile until you are sure she is there for YOU and not your wallet. Not all us gals are gold diggers. I would live in a tent with the right man if I had to!
2006-11-01 01:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so maybe its time for you to realize that if ur looking for the trophy girl...she's looking for MR.$$$! So its going to be up to your acute sense of investment and risk taking to really assess which one is worth it and will pay off in the long run. Don't base it on her looks, I recommend someone similar to you in many respects that has accomplished goals of her own, A woman who has will be able to understand you, value your hard work and efforts while supporting your new endevours.
These women are out there, but you don't find us at the club cause we are hard at work accomplishing our own things. We are far more rare and lovely than a common golddigger, but often less flashy!
2006-11-01 01:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a great guy and a lucky find for any woman, so don't worry that you've had bad experiences in the past. It's just bad luck is all, and your time will come. I'm not a fan of some of the more common methods of meeting someone - aka single bars, online dating sites - but I guess you could try those if you really wanted to meet a girl. I would just say hold on and let her come to you - patience is a virtue, and you will be rewarded for your wait by somebody who will love you for you. =)
2006-11-01 01:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by La 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well if u keep on bragging abt ur achievements & financial stability then gold diggers wud never stop hitting on u.
try a low profile..
nice & sincere women r not attracted by ur position in life, ur bank acct, ur latest car, etc. etc..
they'll go out w/u even if ur not rich or not that gudlooking, as long as u have a kind heart & a gud sense of humor..
2006-11-01 01:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who were the females you knew before you became so well off? Girls you went to school with, or dated. Get in touch with them. You know which ones were genuine. They still are.
Also go somewhere where you are not known. Don't go bragging about what you own, etc. Just fake it and when you find a girl who just likes you for you, there ya go!
2006-11-01 01:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't let them know you have all that.
make up some story about what you do & that you're a student, blah,blah,blah
then when you finally realize they like you fr who you are; & if they are worth investing time into, give them little hints.
You are probably attracting the wrong 1s by letting everyone know everything all at once.
2006-11-01 03:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you eb a girl who doesnt know anything about you, your background or bank balance? see how is she with you. and see her perspective about her life.what she wants to become and accomplish.if she is the type of girl who is very independant, not demanding and works hard for her life-then perhaps you can trust her ...
2006-11-01 01:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop being so generous and see if the stick around...If they do its not your money, its you they want...
2006-11-01 01:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋