Not bragging or anything like that, but I feel like a certain girl is interested in me. The way she looks at me is kinda different. I don't talk to her but her friends are my friends and we often sit at a cafeteria together.
Honestly speaking I am not attracted to her, not that she ugly or anything but there is no that sight love thing on my side.
But she is good and good looking. I also sometimes think may be she doesn't want to go out with me may just wants to be friends. But again the way she looks at me doesn't seem like that.
What do yall think, Do you think the sight attraction is a must to go and ask someone or should I just ask her out even if I don't have any attraction as far as dating is concerend?
2006-10-31 17:09:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should ask her out if you're not interested in dating her. It sounds like she seems a bit interested in you, but really, don't get her hopes up if you're going to crash them in the end. You should only initiate a relationship with someone if you really want to be with them, not just because you kinda sorta like them and want to be able to say, "Heeeey we're going out!"
2006-10-31 17:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by La 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to date someone that you have no attraction with what so ever why don't you try being her friend first and see if the attraction for her might come later you know just because there might be a possibility that this girl likes you don't mean that you have to jump into a relationship how do you think she is going to feal when she finds out that you were never really attracted to her in the first place. take her feelings in consideration. you can never go wrong with just being friends first
2006-11-01 01:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by bonnie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to bring up the matter casually, feel free to do so. But why not just go ahead and ask her if she likes you? If she doesn't like you in that way, you can say that you saw her looking at you and just wondered. If she does, you could ask her if she wants to go out. Just take it slow. If you feel it necessary, say it's just once, to see how things work out. Who knows? You may see a side of her that you didn't before and want to continue the relationship.
If you see that as digging yourself into a hole you can't get out of, then take the "just friends" approach.
2006-11-01 01:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by dragon8rider2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a bit and see what happens. If u keep thinking about later on then go for it but sometimes u just have to follow your gut and ask yourself yes and no questions. is it yes or no, only u can answer that
2006-11-01 01:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out, but treat her good til u find a girl u like then break up wit her as gently as possible, wait a while and ask out the girl u like, this way u not only gain a bit more exp. but u have a bit of a rep boost with the other nice girls who are worth dating
2006-11-01 01:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always just go to a movie and a meal... you have have to fall in love to do that. Go as friends. Alot of friends do end up hooking up though. That's the best way, too.
2006-11-01 01:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by mabell1025 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just talk to her like a friend not asking her out since you don't really know what she thinks or feels about you.
2006-11-01 01:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by Y.G. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if u dont know her too well...and if u aiin attraktiid ta her. and aiin eviin sherr if she likes u...this mayy sound elementary. buh ax around...c if she into u r not....u sed she aiin fuglyy. so talknna her wont be hard. jes start out slow. and there may be an attraction...if u guys kan talk && have fun. then i think u shud go for it...if ya`ll jes have fun...then maybe u shud stikk ta being frenz...buh in tha end onlyy u kan decide...jes dont lead her on; in tha end taht only hurts a girl more...good luck && god bless.
2006-11-01 01:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not attracted to her, it is not a good idea to ask her out. Maybe she just wants to be friends.
Be friendly, not fake.
2006-11-01 01:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by annie_bananie066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you ask someone out that you aren't that interested in? what is the point?
2006-11-01 01:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋