we've bean going out for 5 years we both work alot and have our problems but thats normal but we havent had sex in about 2 months and i know she's not cheating but it bothers me that she doesnt want to have sex ... i dont bug her about it i dont bring it up becuase she just ses she doesnt feel like it but i've tried everything i know to turn her on and it doesnt work any help ???? tips advice ????
2006-10-31 17:08:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MAYBE she has developed a conscience and wants to live a clean life.
MAYBE she doesn't want to risk pregnancy before marriage.
MAYBE she is tired of waiting for you to commit to her. You say it doesn't bother you that you don't see much of her. Well right there is half the problem. She is beginning to realize you just use her. You are bothered by the lack of sex but not bothered that you don't see her very much. Iisten to your own words man. She has picked up on your attitude and is probably cooling things off with you. Probably thinking about looking for a guy who wants marriage.
Think it over dude. If she means so little to you, she knows by now and is most likely looking for another guy.
2006-10-31 17:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by mindbender - seeker of truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your gf is too tired because of the work issues. Let her have some rest first. Maybe she's too exhausted to think of other stuffs, not to even a great workout like sex. Since you know she's not cheating on you, then you should be more happy than anything. All you can think of is sex, ain't you concern more about her health as she works so much? Pls try to be a little understanding and see how it goes. If you're really worried, try to talk to her and hear from her yourself. Maybe all she wants is some resting time and she's all set for a high escape - sex with you next time! Pls bear with it for the time being.
2006-11-01 01:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I know what shes going through maybe? (hopefully im wrong), but when I was with my ex, I got abit over it, I didnt know it at the time, I found him attractive, but I guess I went kind of lazy! Coz when your with your mate for a while, you kind of feel at times that its ok to just let go and not bother about sex. What he did was, he did something totally not him, as if i was experiencing something with someone new as he would not normally do this, but he started to be extra romantic (pathetic i know-for a guy) and after a shower he would just put moisturiser on my body and he would say that he didnt want anything just wanted to feel my body and brush my hair and slowly kiss my neck that I started to feel arused again by him, he would do those things but it would normally end up in sex, if you dont let it she will (without thinking) start wanting it and her sexual appetite will return. Also coz she might get abit tired and doesnt feel like it, so at times you both have to put that extra bit of work to balance things out.
2006-11-01 01:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with her you goof. more time just talking. in bed just touch her in other places than boobs and downstairs. tell her how you love her body and she drives you crazy. make her feel like a goddess of beauty and ask her to make time for some lovin. good luck. Maybe give her an orgasm without expecting one in return
2006-11-01 09:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Bexx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not good in bed honey because she did'nt beg you to do do that.my bf is not good in bed so i can live without sex for a month but im not cheating him.
2006-11-01 01:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by ress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, get a new girlfriend because this one ain't cutting it.
2006-11-01 01:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her about it and dont do too much thinking...tell her how u feel and all
2006-11-01 01:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should listen to cutie! definetly a great tip.
2006-11-01 01:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by ~Jiggafied~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
romantic getaway, candlelight, music.
2006-11-01 01:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by annie_bananie066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put some pornos on
2006-11-01 01:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by Adrian T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋