my bf went to have dinner with a group of friends (guys and girls) h invited me but i had to finish up some work at home, so i didnt go...
but its getting kind of late, and im starting to get jealous...
should i
A)call him (although ill feel like his MOM)
or
B) just relax and lay back- he doesnt need a clingy girlfrind checking up on him...
2006-10-31 17:06:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
relax
2006-10-31 17:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Bee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should not call....that would only show that you are jealous. Time will tell if it's meant to be. Just try to relax and get your mind off of it. When your emotions have calmed down ....maybe in a couple of days....then you might want to find the right time to approach him about how worried you get about him when he doesn't call. You might also want to mention to him that a quick phone call or text message is just something that should be done in order to develop a strong trusting relationship.
2006-11-01 01:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Let him know that you trust him and do not smother him. Nothing scares a guy off faster than that! Just be extra attentive tohim next time you see him so his thoughts turn back to you and make him want to be with you. Next time, he will probably come back sooner, or only go if you do too.
2006-11-01 01:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by bambi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just text msg him and dont ask where ru and stuff..just say I MIS U HERE SOOO MUCH!! RU MISSING ME THERE??
If he replies....THUMBS UP!!
and he might even call....
not that u cant call.....but do call if u can...dont think negative,after all he's ur guy u love him....but justt stress the point saying I MISS U ru enjoying? what the food menue? make few jokes on the available people....add few girls in....like u know....the girl sitting opposite to you is sweet etc....
I hope u got my point....
the best thing u can do is...send him a rose or a wild flower to the destination through some1 with a note saying....DO U MISS ME THERE?? I MISS U HERE!! just be creative...and yeah about the jealousy..IT ONLY COMES WHEN U REALLY LOVE SOME1...BE HAPPY ABOUT IT AND SHOW THAT U LOVE HIM.....WITH OR WITHOUT UR PRESENCE!!
Hope this helps you,
Tc.
2006-11-01 01:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by Cute Angel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him, u have every right to call him because he's your man.
Call him, tell him you miss him and would like to knwo what time he'll be back so you can prepare yourself for some nice cuddling.
It's some sort of a reminder to him that he should behave and not get into any hanky-panky with some other girls.
2006-11-01 01:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by kittenheart 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax.
2006-11-01 01:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you think he's doing? It seems that it's you with the issue not him. If you definately have to call him just call and say that you were going to bed and wanted to say goodnight. Other than that there's nothing to say. Let him enjoy yourself. You're the one that chose not to go.
2006-11-01 01:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just relax for a little while longer...obviously if he invited you, hes not planning on hooking up with anyone right??
2006-11-01 01:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by DefLeppardxXx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just chill out. Take a bath or sing along to loud music and dance to take your mind off of it. Whatever you do, don't call him (even though you really want to). He'll appreciate it and it will make him miss you even more, honestly.
2006-11-01 01:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Call him tell him you miss him and you wanted to hear his voice before you go to sleep but don't keep him on the phone long or his friends will think he is a wuss and that he cant go anywhere without you checking on him.
2006-11-01 01:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just relax let him do his own thing you have to trust him unless he give you a reason not to trust him and the last thing that he needs is another mother
2006-11-01 01:10:18 · answer #11 · answered by bonnie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋