in middle school i an poupular like said befor and i am being crushed by pressure and pouplarity but every time i try to be unpoupular they just pull me bac in like a tornado some kids whant to be in the crowd not me thow help me pppleeese help me
2006-10-31 17:05:48 · 9 answers · asked by babygurl02 R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps too the stupid people you know who you are i dont wana be poupular
2006-10-31 17:31:36 · update #1
come on its middle school just go do your work and leave dont show any interests in talking to everybody
2006-10-31 17:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron m420 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
babygurl: I'm assuming that you are serious about not wanting to belong with the "in crowd". What you might consider doing is doing the things YOU like to do, with the people YOU like to be with. Being a teenager is a very - very tough act to follow in this day and age. You all have pressures exerted upon you that only a 4 ton (tonne - for Canadians), elephant could produce. (Much different than when I went to school.) I really feel for you all. Remember; you have nothing to prove to no body but YOURSELF !!! You will never please everybody ( I promise) !
You sound like a real "people person" and that is a special gift to have. Be an individual and remember: all tornadoes die out and you don't have to be sucked in to one ... you have a choice !!!
IF you are really depressed. Please take action and seek qualified HELP. Go to your school counsellor, family Doctor, your church Pastor or Rabbi. Don't "just ignore it" !!! Depression will get worse with time if not treated. Depression leaves you tired and feeling left out of life. There is good treatment available for it and you will feel better about yourself. All the best to you.
2006-10-31 17:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This year is very practically over so delight on your final year of center college with the chums you have now. do no longer undertaking approximately every person else, do in basic terms what makes you satisfied and function relaxing. Being basic would not remember and it wont remember 10 years from now. In highschool, each little thing transformations and you will possibly have different friends and make numerous new ones.
2016-11-26 21:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. you dont always have to follow a crowd just because its the "popular" crowd. if your friends are indeed "friends" they will understand why you dont want to do something, go somewhere...etc. your still in middleschool...you still got highschool and collage to go though all that...dont worry about it soo much. really, theres NO POINT to always being in the "popular" crowd. you'll find out who your "true" friends are after highschool when everyone goes to college...if your luckie it wont be such a big shock.
"ps too the stupid people you know who you are i dont wana be poupular" ...thats real mature btw.
2006-10-31 17:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats the wierdest thing ive heard in w while if people are not your freinds done hang aaround with them, but popularity is only what people let it be it means absolutly nothing if you dont want it to. just ignore and it will go away.
2006-10-31 17:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all, what does ur question have to do with Singles & Dating? anyway...being popular is nothing in middle school. u wont get anything good out of it...just concentrate on ur studies and just be whoever you are....tsk tsk...kids these days....*sigh*
2006-10-31 18:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ pErFeCt_LoVeR ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get over ur self
2006-10-31 17:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by im that guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Decide who you want to be with. Decide!
2006-10-31 17:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
lyk omg that is so awful!
2006-10-31 17:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by LilahFairy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋