Why do so many people divorce and become part of the throw away world?

Answer 1

People and certainly couples tire of the effort it takes to keep communication open in a marriage. Some people get fed up easily with money problems in a relationship and would rather "go it alone" rather than finding solutions within his existing relationship. Then there are men and woman who think another relationship with a new person would be more satisfying, more exciting, less stressful, more romantic, etc than the marriage they are currently in. When people or not happy, leaving that relationship frees them up for another 'shot' at being happy. People dont care about the children they have brought into this world when they sever the ties with their marital partner. Some people have no conscious or sense of responsibility toward the family they are about to throw away. Shame, shame, shame.The grass is always greener in someone elses pasture. People ARE NOT disposable. Yet, the way our society is, youd think people are supposed to be discarded when they are no longer valued or needed or wanted.

Answer 2

For me, the answer was abuse. Big time. Imagine being pregnant with your first child, and your husband throwing you out of the houes into the cold winter rain so his friends can have the run of the house. Imagine being too naive to think twice about it. Then imagine having that child by c section and two days after having this major abdominal surgery, coming home and being ordered to cook and clean and not rest. Then imagine, a month later, not enough salt in the food and, while holding the month old baby, being attacked, grabbed by the throat, and being thrown to the floor. Imagine going through physically violent episode after another until you are pregnant again with a baby you specifically begged not to have. Then imagine that while pregnant, you are forced to lift heavy items and support the family because your husband just refuses and says that it's YOU who has ruined his life. Imagine THAT baby being a month old and being attacked while on the couch nursing it. Imagine something falling and then having your husband smash a stroller onto your back, then grab you and repeatedly slam you against the floor and the couch. Then imagine him holding you down with his feet as he breaks your ankle with his hands.

Is that a good enough reason to divorce? Or do the children and I need to die first?

Answer 3

Well I really couldn't say because everyone i know to divorce, got right into remarrying, so what do you mean about becoming part of the throw away world. Everyone should love them self to know that life always give you a second chance so if you couldn't get along with one marriage try try try again, until you find you sold mate.

Answer 4

Surely you won't judge everyone who's had to go through this. Should a woman who's husband beats her and their children not divorce her abuser? Should a man who's wife repeatedly commits adultery and beats their kids stay with her? There are too many REAL-LIFE scenarios to name. People make mistakes, and sometimes that mistake was marrying in the first place. They are simply trying to rectify that with divorce. If you are happily married, be thankful, but don't judge others because of their misery.

Answer 5

Divorce is living proof for the world that marriage isn't as sanctive as they think it is. Equal rights for all in civil unions across the country is ideal. Some want in, others want out. Ultimately it's what you want that you need to concern yourself with, not what others do. Sorry if divorce adversely effected you, it is a reality of life that not all people can live their lives in the compatibility required to sustain a loving, lasting relationship for life.

Answer 6

Why do so many people *judge others* and thus become part of the throw away world?

Answer 7

I never met anyone who was divorced, that should have stayed with their ex. It's naive to think that when people make the wrong choice when marrying their spouse, that they should pretend for the rest of their lives that they love each other when they don't. This breeds hatred and it's better to get out before they end up hurting each other irreparably. There are some things that you just cannot forgive.

Answer 8

Because marriage is not a lifelong contract. I know, the idea is romantic. Love this person for the rest of your life and all, but it's not realistic. My mother got divorced from her first husband because he was physically and emotionally abusive. Are you suggesting that people put up with bad marriages just because 'divorce is wrong'?

Answer 9

A lot of marriages end in divorce because the marriages were never based on God or His Word. People think that they know what is right for themselves without asking for God's guidance. As for me, I do not believe in divorce, so I am waiting on God's timing before I get married. He will provide the right time and the right person for me IF He wants it to be that way.

Answer 10

Because, in order to have a successful marriage, not only do both people have to be willing to work it out, one would have to go against all natural instincts and logic. Give, and not receive, love unconditionally, Lift one another up. etc. Most of the time people check out because they arent getting what they want, shut down, and the other person emotional needs arent met, and its a big circle of downward spiril. I pray for all married couples. It is not easy!