i'm in love with an old bf..i know i am because everytime i see him my heart races and it also hurts because he has a gf right now(i completely admit i was a stupid idiot for letting him go)..i also know i'm in love cuz he's the only guy i want to be with and i can't stop thinking about him. literally like 24/7 i think about him and am hoping a miracle happens and i get him back. it hurts right now cuz he has a gf. i could tell him how i feel but would that be the jerky thing to do..or i could talk to his best friend so that he can drop hints about me...he doesn't know how i feel...should i tell him or just wait it out even though it hurts like crazy waiting...
2006-10-31 16:55:40 · 11 answers · asked by beforehecheats 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say as hard as it might be, truly put in God's hands. HIs timing has a way of making all things right. Be still and patient as Gods tells us to in times of doubt and listen for he will tell you what to do!
2006-10-31 17:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by btsnpieces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your symptoms are not the symptoms of love, they are the signs of an unhealthy obsession. Get over the past, and get over yourself. Find something else to occupy your mind, other than ensnaring his best friend to interfere with his relationship. Volunteer, take a class, join a club, take lots of cold showers.
2006-11-01 01:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in life you need to just move on. He is obviously trying to move on if he has a new girlfriend. If he loves her, than you should just leave it alone. You don't want to be the psycho ex gf who won't leave him alone. Also, remember that by interfering in his current relationship may satisfy your feelings but hurt someone elses. Is it worth it?
2006-11-01 01:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by grneyz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait...give it some time...go out with other guys, make sure that you really do love him and you're not just lonely and craving the attention of someone who treats you well...and then after you figure all this out..talk to him, don't drop hints with his friend...that gets messy and confusing.
2006-11-01 00:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
I know exactly what Ur going through right now.It sucks to let him go.I think of my frist true love 24/7,364 days of the year too.i hear ya girl....i do that also.
my advise is you talk to his best friend so that he drop hints about you.
2006-11-01 02:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u see a guy and ur heart races u might have some serious heart problems.. check out a doctor
2006-11-01 00:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your guy has another girl now.its wrong for you to be approaching him when he is in another relationship.its not wrong for you to think about him, but is it going to help you in any way??
your gonna be more hurt, thats all. maybe if you cant take it, just meet him personally and let him know how you feel.
2006-11-01 00:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just wait to see what happens. Then when your ready, go and tll him how you feel. =) Good Luck.
2006-11-01 01:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Choco Lover♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.....there is nothing you can do right now...right??
So, why don't you just try and go and tell him.??
Its worth a try....better than sittin like a fat *** hen....right??
Tell him, alllll that you feel.
2006-11-01 01:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by Romeo (The Original) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has a gf?! better to get rid of him... if you two meant for each other, even if you won't do the moves...love will find its way!!!
2006-11-01 00:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋