Ok so here's my story. My girlfriend and I got into a little altercation the other day. Unfortunately both of us ended up getting hurt but we both apologized to eachother and what not. She is uber busy right now with school and hasn't talked to me on the phone for 2 days now ( we talk everyday usually). She's sent me little e-mails asking me how I was doing and what not but that's it. Could it be that she isn't talking to me on the phone because of the incident that happened or b/c she is busy? This is what I'm confused about.
Thanks
2006-10-31 16:52:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also at the time of the altercation she asked me not to call her but since then we've been talking on MSN, so that's why I haven't called her
2006-10-31 17:11:19 · update #1
well, you really need to just ask her. it is hard to tell, considering we don't know what all she is doing & what her intentions are. so, just pick up the phone & leave her a message if you have to. show her you care & just want to hear her voice.
2006-10-31 16:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person is never to busy to call someone they love even if it's to tell you they can't talk, but just wanted to touch base with you.
She is probably still hurting, and because you two said the "I'm Sorry's" she know that it should be left alone, but if she talks to you she may bring it up again so she is just taking a emotional break for herself, just go with it right now because if you don't you guys may end up in another situation. Good luck.
2006-10-31 16:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi!
This is normal.nothing to worry and drood over.
If she didnt call u,u can call her..maybe she must be thinking the same way as u do.
2nd If she's busy and she mailed u out of her busy schedule thats on top than the call....I am a girl,i always call.but when i write mails its special coz iam really thinking of the person and also missing and and and want to surprise my guy with a mail......
Just think from her side okies.
I think everythings fine...just that maybe she used a wrong method to keep in touch with you if ur not a fan of mails from her......LOL
Tc,
Enjoy and love her.....and she'll be all over U!
2006-10-31 17:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Cute Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have apologized, but I thing her feeling was a little more hurt than your, I dont know what was said but yes she is making her self busy because right about now she rather not be bother with you.
2006-10-31 16:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if little has been left unsolved with a doubt in her mind abt the previous incident then she might be waiting for the rite time to come up up..
best thing is to give time... under such condition for ur relation
or else be bold,frank and gentle to discuss things with her..
if u got some doubt speak up..
go take some time out with her to share fresh air and love..and share some beautiful memories..
dnt worry .. feel free..
>>a suggestion is try to trun he on by being humorous and more caring...
2006-10-31 16:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by kul_lovin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely its because she is just busy, and she could be keeping herself busy just to recover from being hurt. Give her some time and let things settle down and it will all be back to normal after a little while.
2006-10-31 16:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably is just still a little angry but things will probably go back to normal soon.
2006-10-31 16:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by ??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be still hurt but what is important is she still cares for you by sending you emails asking you how you are....call her and tell her you appreciate her efforts in sending them to you and that you love her....
2006-10-31 17:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you have said, you already apologize to each other... so nothing to be worried...she's just busy!!!
2006-10-31 16:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because she's busy but why can't you ring her & ask her yourself
2006-10-31 16:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by cowboys4lee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋