ladies have you ever had this power taken away from you. i'm not talking about long term relationships either. like some guy you're trying to seduce and he just didn't want to have sex with you.
how did you feel
2006-10-31 15:19:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man that's so funny cause I had that happen once 4 years ago. I dam ne'er **** when he said no.Ha Ha Well the next day I wake up thinking was it me? was my make-up smeared? Did I act stupid or something? man I racked my brain cause I never had this happen to me! No ****! Well it's been 4 years now with the same man that told me no that night~! We still talk and laugh about it. He is the most,the best, sex partner I have ever, ever had. So don't let it fool ya. Later sunnydays
2006-10-31 15:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have been told by multiple people that I have a higher sex drive than most guys... so that is always happening to me unfortunately.
You have to deny people sex in order to be in "control" of the sex life. If you're like me who's ready for sex you won't have the power you're talking about... but then you'd be dening yourself and your partner the chance to connect more regularly and that's something I'm not willing to give up.
2006-10-31 15:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by IceyFlame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both parties decide if sex is going to happen or not...they both have to be agreeable...he can abstain or she can abstain...
...and yes, I've been desirous of sex and had the guy I was with not feel the same...it's a form of rejection, and it's not pleasant...
...the idea that women are in complete control of that kind of situation is silly, and makes men look bad...the truth is, both people are callin' the shots in that situation...
2006-10-31 15:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one million) perchance the ladies human beings have been "reserved" in intense college and faculty; now they decide directly to be lively. 2) They locate u particularly alluring 3) they do no longer care or 4) they're leap offs only countless the probabilities. finally end up a female chum no longer a leap off.
2016-12-16 17:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by sory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep it's always my call. And no, I've never had a guy say no, not right now etc. It's nice to have power :)
2006-10-31 15:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to fix youself up or he may be trying to protect you from something. Take a hint.
2006-10-31 15:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by SR 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, to answer your first question
women that know what they want and are aggressive enough to go get it. I move for them.
the others, seduction, dice rollin,(games), nah.
you'll get replaced.
fortunately for me, I got a choice.
2006-10-31 15:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by Xae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Huh?How did he do that?He must be a super hero or something.
2006-10-31 15:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never....
i dont seduce guys without any commitment, don't sleep also with any tom dick or harry....so never
2006-10-31 15:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just forget and ask you boy freind and yourself
2006-10-31 15:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by ashishmulye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋