aware that his friend was interested in me, i was interested in him too but i had just started working there and didn't tell anyone that i liked this man. but my now b/f told me that he told his friend that i didn't like him. now i'm mad. i love my boyfriend but i still have feelings for the other..how can i stop having these feelings? I can't tell my b/f not to have him over because he would ask questions. he flirts with me and i'm starting to flirt back, is that ok as long as its just flirting? please no nasty comments, i'm really needing some advice
2006-10-31 15:15:40 · 8 answers · asked by becca j 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is very natural to like more than one person at a time - simply because each person has their own individual qualities and attractive traits, which can make you like them and enjoy their company.
What would be wrong is for you to start getting very intimately and physically familiar with both at the same time ! Because I very strongly believe, that it is ONLY POSSIBLE to get this close to someone OUT OF LOVE for them – and this COULDN’T BE POSSIBLE with two different men at the same time – because than it could not be described as TRUE LOVE, but ONLY A PHYSICAL LOVE !
THINK ABOUT IT !!!
2006-10-31 19:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by fun2Bwith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to have sorted this out before 7 years! Surely you know in your heart who is the right one for you? Have you ever watched How To Make An American Quilt? Sometimes the long term stable guy is a much better catch then the short term flirtation.....
2006-10-31 15:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 7 years you still have feelings for the friend.....you are not in love with your boyfriend...do the right thing break it off and go for it but doesn't sound like your Ms. Right...............geeez
2006-10-31 15:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT SEE THE PROBLEM YOU HAVE BEEN WITH THIS GUY
FOR 7 YEARS, SO WHY CARE ABOUT WHAT HAPPEN BEFORE. IT THE PRESENT AND THE FUTURE THAT MATTER
NOW. SO LEAVE THE PAST WHERE IT SHOULD BE IN'
THE PAST.AS FOR THE FLIRTING WITH THE OTHER GUY
THAT SHOULD STOP BEFORE SOMETHING HAPPEN
THAT YOU DONT WANT TO HAPPEN.
2006-10-31 15:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fire burns no matter where it is started and I think you have some potentially eruptive molten lava fire that could happen and if you break it off because of your new finding then it would be best but dfeintely not an easy break because of everyones closeness
2006-10-31 15:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by Bud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 7 years-why would you even care what the boyfriends' friend thinks of you?
2006-10-31 15:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was 7 years ago. it seems wierd you are still mad about it.
2006-10-31 15:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pshh everry1 flirts...i flirt even tho i have a bf...its not rly flirting if nobody catches it thooo...
2006-10-31 15:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋