having women problem,i love her,but she never does the things i like,just tonight she talked about her old boyfriends,right in front of me.made a couple remark it's the man job to take care of her,i d the best i can,when able,i'm hurt high school sweetheart,20+years now,she was alive and beautiful as a summer rose! please help me is it time to walk?
2006-10-31 14:19:02 · 10 answers · asked by motorhead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you do for her??? Are you sending her flowers, taking her to dinner, shopping??? Do you ask her what SHE needs??? Are you maybe a little over-jealous??? People do a lot of growing up in 20 years, her needs have changed most likely??
A couple remarks would not bother a confident man!!!!
Insecurity in a man is anything, but NOT sexy or attractive!!!!
Do you make her jealous, watch pornos maybe, compare her to other women???? Good luck!
2006-11-01 10:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by POPPY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please have more confidence in yourself and realize you are amuch better person that the gal your with right now.
Anyone that wold love and care about you would not make "remarks" about old flames in front of you.
If she can't take care of herself then you don't want her, I don't know about you but that's a turn off, someone that can't take care of themself would not be for me!
Again have more confidence in yourself. Your in love with the girl from 20+ years ago, not the narcissit she is now!
2006-10-31 22:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by ellenflr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, it's up to you. if you can stand being in the position you're in, then stay. if it bothers you all too much to the point of doubting yourself and her though, then do what would be best for both of you and leave. but, before you decide, just talk to her and tell her what's going on in your head-you know how you guys can't read our minds, guess what-we can't read minds either-she might be totally oblivious to the fact that she hurt you, so tell her and try to talk it out. if this fails, then, you might want to just walk away-the choice is yours though. but just talk to her first.
2006-10-31 22:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by *MaE* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont you hate it when they mention about their past bf's, the only thing she should be mentionin about him is how you are better than him.shes really needy..i duno bro, but talk with her.cuz if your offering what you got and thats all u can give then she needs someone else.
2006-10-31 22:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by itstony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you do. The next time she starts talking about old boyfriends, tell her about the three other chicks you're banging right now. You aren't banging other chicks? Then you need to remedy that.
2006-10-31 22:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by letum_ante_dedecus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweetheart she is taking you for granted. she knows you love her and she is using it against you to manipulate you into doing her bidding. i think she needs to see that you are desireable to other women and that she needs to appreciate you.
2006-10-31 22:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means she just wants to either make you jealous or she wants u to dump her.
2006-10-31 22:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her a relationship should be open, but if she's making you jealous then she doesn't cherish your feelings enough.
2006-10-31 22:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by ~Pitbull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ain't she needy,, how about finding a more independent woman who will not take you for granted..
2006-10-31 22:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should talk to her and tell her what you feel.
2006-10-31 22:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by jojolizeth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋