Sweetie dont stress yourself out about this. You just need to relax and consentrate on school and work. After you start doing this you will find a man. Shoot I went through a dry spell and could not even get a girl to look my way, so I started thinking of only work and next thing I know I found a girl. So trust me good things come to those who wait.
2006-10-31 14:11:15
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answered by montana_infantry_man 2
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2016-04-27 15:48:30
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answered by emogene 3
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I am in the same boat, but I am a male, 33 years old, still a virgin, never had a girlfriend all because I am downright ugly. When you have a big nose, a skinny face, balding, and a long neck, I don't care how nice you are or if you have a great personality, if you are that ugly, you won't ever find a girl to like you.
In your case, I believe you are attracted to hunky stud-muffin hotties, but they are not interested in you because you are not "hot" enough for them. That's probably why you don't have a boyfriend. Your standards are too high. Any girl can get a guy to like them, if they are not fat and ugly. The reason why there are single women is because they either are fat and ugly or they are PICKY. So my advice, if you like a guy, ASK HIM OUT. If he says no, it's because he is out of your league.
2006-10-31 14:27:54
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answered by NJboy 3
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Ok, First off. You will not be alone for ever.
Second. Get that video tape RIGHT NOW!
THAT will come back to haunt you.
As for your NO man issue.
If you have your life on tap like you say you do why do you NEED a man?
Enjoy being single.
Stop looking he will find you.
If you are really still freaking out find a pair of fake birds a red cloth and a pink cloth set then up in the far right corner of you room. Look at the birds every day in their pairing and make sure to clean under your bed. The energy will flow better in your room and you will find what you are looking for!
2006-10-31 14:13:39
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answered by Ryce Queen 13 3
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First off: I'll bet at least some of the guys you like secretly find you attractive, classy, and smart, and therefore intimidating! Believe it or not guys your age are probably as insecure as you are.
Second: I've SOOOOO been in your shoes!! My advice is don't worry about finding someone who wants to date you - Be worried about knowing what YOU want and what YOU need. What kind of work do you want to do? Where do you want to live? Slob or neat freak? Hypochondriac or "tough it out?" Spender or saver? Could you deal with your opposite? How about Kids? When & how many? Spanking or not? Moving for jobs & money or "making do" so they can grow up in one place? Religion? How important is your family? Do you need to live close to them? What about holidays? Will "boys night out" be OK? What about "girls night out?" How often? What about platonic friends of the opposite sex? Figure out for yourself now what is and is not negotiable; it will save you alot of pain later. I wish I'd thought about these things when I was your age. What YOU will have to guard against is getting in too deep with Mr. Wrong because you want so much to be in love. Believe me, if Mr. Wrong shows up he may look very much like Mr. Right on the surface. I was soooo much like you when I was 19... and that's when I met my son's father. We were both so lonely, and we needed each other, and for a while we were so happy in our own little world. But it was a fantasy world, and when reality finally reared it's ugly head it was too late... married with a baby at 21... The little questions I mention above came up, and many others... In hindsight I realize we were totally incompatible. We divorced after 9 very difficult years of marriage.
My advice: YOU are responsible for your own happiness - not some guy, not your friends, not your boss at work. Don't let anyone else determine your self-worth. I know it's hard when other girls seem to have a romance going at all times... Practice smiling at strangers if you're in a good mood - kids, old men (they love it!!) or anybody who seems receptive. It might make someone else's day and it will make you more confident around people you don't know (like some hot guy at school or work maybe??) Then work up to saying hi to people if you find yourself making eye contact. You don't have to say anything else. What's the worst thing that can happen? Type "flirting tips" in your search bar. I did, and recently had one of the most enjoyable evenings I had in a long time - no pressure, nothing on the line, not taking it too seriously, just having fun. STAY IN COLLEGE and get a degree in something that you can turn into a decent living. Learn to move on quickly from little setbacks - don't get bogged down when things don't go your way - things always turn around, it's just a matter of time. When things do turn around, you'll need to know what you want - otherwise you may just end up accepting what's around. When you think you've finally found Mr. Right, remember negotiation is ok but whatever you do, DON"T SETTLE! I know you're gonna be fine little lady! Hang in there!
2006-10-31 16:20:14
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answered by Auntie M 2
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first to start off with being fat Doe's not affect you having a boy friend because i consider my self fat and boys find me attractive and appealing so may be you have the wrong idea of what a man look for in a woman yes they look for good looks but if you want a real good man he's going to look for much more than that i think you are searching too hard just sit back and relax and allow them to come to you, you are still young you have plenty of time to get a man may be there is a reason you have not find a man
2006-10-31 14:16:18
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answered by angel 1
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Wow,I could have written this question word for word.(Except the age).My heart goes out to you.I guess I'm just here to say that your not alone.Hang in there baby.Could be your being saved up for someone really special.
Of course theres the old French saying..."be careful what you wish for"...alot of people IN relationships are just plain miserable.
There might be something about looking desperate.Your not looking desperate are you?Now don't be looking desperate,
that's just not attractive.Some people advise to stop looking for a relationship,that's supposedly when they happen....but then what do I know?Look what I wrote in paragraph 1.Anyways,if I had the answer to your question,the world would be beating a path to the door of my 52 room mansion.Hey,if you ever need to talk,e-male
me.I'd love to be your e-pal.
2006-10-31 14:37:11
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answered by Mark K 6
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There could be many reasons that you have not met a guy. But too start... are you looking ? and if so where ???? Give the internet a try, het you a myspace account, myspace.com is one of the very best places too meet people, its where I met my girl and we certainly love each other. Next once you get that account at myspace, go too the browse section and add guys who are in your area. Then once they are added as friends just start talking too them. Look at Astrology.com and find your zodiac sign, look at the love match tool and find out what signs that you are compatible and add guys of that sign too your friends list as well. One you have about 50 guys from your town added I absolutaly promise you are gonna have more dates than you can imagine. Good Luck
2006-10-31 14:13:36
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answered by The Red Dragon 2
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Eventually you will find the person that you will be happy with.
Just be yourself, and do not let other people tell you how to be.
I hope this makes sense to you.
You may want to try the local dating clubs, but do not fall for the first guy you meet.
I wish you the best of luck
2006-10-31 14:10:33
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answered by Anonymous
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You WILL find someone. Honest.
Put yourself out there. Don't be over outgoing, but speak up in class, make jokes, laugh alot, be loud sometimes.
Hang with guys in groups. Make friends with men before you start to drop hints.
Good luck, and you'll get a guy!
2006-10-31 14:11:14
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answered by sirprizeme139 3
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