Okay, so i have known a guy for my whole life. We were best friends in like the 5th grade, and both liked each other, but didnt know it. Then, just last year, we actually dated. But another girl got in the way of our relationship. We broke up after 1 month. Then, I decided to date him again just a couple weeks ago, but all he ever talked about was sex. So, after a week, i broke up with him. But lately, it seems like all my friends have been saying that me and him are "meant to be". But i'm not all that sure of it. He is such a player that i'm scared of being hurt. again. So, my ? is this: what would you do in this situation: go out with him or kick him to the curb?
thanx.
2006-10-31 14:04:11 · 12 answers · asked by goodgrl032091 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would talk to him and let him know that you believe there is more to a relationship than sex. A whole lot more. I mean, is he going to follow his you know what, or his brain when the two of you are together and apart from one another. Really . . . tell him how you define your relationship and see whether or not he agrees or disagrees.
You know what you can live with and what you cannot live with. You know what you want and do not want. If he is not what you want, pass on the whole thing. There's lots of other people in this world.
2006-10-31 14:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by joyann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I have gone through this kind of thing before! It's so ironic! I would say that you just remain best friends for now. If he really wants to start something with you he will realize it in time and if he can't stop thinking about sex 24/7 then move on, but still remain friends. It's nice that your friends have an opinion and you always appreciate, but even if you are meant to be..maybe it's just not right now, but later so maybe timing is the issue. Anyways, that's my opinion..I don't know your heart, but I hope this helps a little!
2006-10-31 14:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by musiclover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMM DAH! if you broke up with him more then twice and then dumped him TWICE don't go out with him.... also if he talkes about sex all the time you don't want to be with him anymore.... girl there are more fish in the sea and if your friends like him so much tell them to go out with him.... you don't want a bf who talks about sex all the time trust me you get sick of it after a couple days... don't do anything just because your friends say it's a good idea.... NOT a good idea.... :)
2006-10-31 14:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CURB!!! He's not a friend and he's not interested in building a relationship with you. Your friends won't be in the back seat of his car when he date rapes you telling you the two of you are "meant to be" so don't listen to their opinions. Make your own decisions.
2006-10-31 14:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by ricktheirish1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a best friend can be your love.not a new thing here.but when he becomes a lover, he might not be the same old best friend of yours.i'm sure this guy never spoke about sex too often when you were just friends.others can easily say out things about you two.only you know what's best for you.me as girl, i can personally say that this guy is playing the fool...you can lose him as your lover, but have him as your old pal..
2006-10-31 14:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gut. you broke up with him for a reason. you're friends without knowing it, like the drama of it all, but they are not the ones in the relationship batting down the sex.
2006-10-31 14:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by Omni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is meant to be YOU should feel more comfortable..i think all girls deserve the best..and if the guy ever apologizes take it..and if he asks u out again..make him prove he is being real! but feel free to date around..i was in your shoes once..and sometimes ur friends arent always right!
2006-10-31 14:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by sharon c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he let a girl in the way that tells you he did not really care for you. perhaps he is looking for the sex he did not get from this other girl and since you were always his friend he may think you will give in. i would not let him drive me into it.
2006-10-31 14:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by ana l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself. If all he is talking about is sex, that is what he is after. Throw him tot he curb.
2006-10-31 14:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb. you already gave him a second chance and he show no improvement.
2006-10-31 14:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋