if he says he loves me y does he do it
2006-10-31 14:03:02 · 24 answers · asked by tab 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him
2006-10-31 14:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Aissata 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been there.. I hardly understand the logic behind it.. I think deep down deep he does care for you deeply which could be the case..
On another note though he doesn't understand 'love.' When u truly love someone.. the need for all others fade away.. They don't matter anymore seriously, I'm married and happily married.
The man I was with before did cheat on me... you kinda have to just pick up on the signs. He would drink smoke, I'm sure he did drugs behind my back and would go the clubs without me..>_<.. or without ever mentioning it.. He would find excuses not to spend time with me.. there was always more important things to do..gym, boxing, car, friends whatever.
A man that cheats on you will tell you what you want to hear.. you'll be blind and want to believe everything he says.. because you won't want to believe what he is doing and you may be in denial..But really he will tell you what you want to hear to have you while another one is on the side..
When it comes down to it I told him it's me or her.. and basically he can go &*%$ himself. You don't need people who will use u and take you for granted when there is someone better out there who will love you more than anything.. and will know what 'love' means. 'Love' is trust & respect- along with other things.
( Yes quite long winded)
2006-10-31 22:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by bulldogsr2cute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave Him.
He has no regard for you or your feelings.
If he loves you as he claims than he would not cheat.
Hate to tell you this but he is keep you on the line YOU ARE THE SPARE OR FALL BACK GIRL.
Is that what you want to be?
Please THINK.
Read what I have written don’t react with anger but go over how it feel when her cheats do you really want to feel that crappy for the rest of your life. Do you want people to be whispering behind you back?
2006-10-31 22:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why he does it is irrelevant. He is not who you want to be with. Dump him, dump him, dump him. Not all men cheat, you just have to look a little harder.
And if anyone says, "All men cheat", they are not only wrong, they are selling good men short and trying to excuse their own bad behavior.
2006-10-31 22:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by Caper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does it cos he knows u will never leave him...There is no point in revenge cos that will make u look just as low as him.. Just stand up to him and say "Ive had enough....And Enough is enough Bye bye!!!!" why should you waste your time and put in all your heart n soul in the relationship n then the moron stabs in you in the back...no no no it doesnt work that way missy...
2006-11-01 23:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by *LuckyStar* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheats, he does not love you, actions speak louder than words, and right now his actions are screaming liar! leave him alone and move on. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-31 22:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat back! What are you doing Friday night?
2006-10-31 22:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by Steve-E-Z 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men cheat because they always want a girl who's hot, it helps fulfill the fantasy and provides more excitment inplace of the mediocre sex he's getting in his current relationship
2006-10-31 22:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
KICK HIM TO THE CURB!! He dosnt love you if he cheats....You are getting played.....That is playing 101!!!!!
2006-10-31 22:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by 800 bound 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So go ahead and waste your time on him,, Because that is what your doing,, your enabling his behavior by letting get away with it,, Remember fool you once shame on him,, fool ya twice shame on you!
2006-10-31 22:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause he's a dog,less than a man,dump the loser or let it continue.
2006-10-31 22:07:29 · answer #11 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋