internet dating - is it fate??

Question

This is going to sound very wieird.
When i was younger (i was 14 he was 17) i got speaking to a bloke over the internet texting and talking all the time, it got to a point where it felt like we were together and we were soulmates, (we know what eachother looks like) he lives about 5 hours away from me and because we were so young we were never able to meet, we stopped speaking because he ended up seeing this other girl but recently hes broken up with this girl and ive broken up with my boyfriend and we have both been in contact with eachother but just as friends....i do like him, he makes me laugh and i know hes such a decent bloke but the trouble is seeing him....is us getting in contact again a good thing or should it just stay as friends??

im now 18 hes now 21, we talk about our problems and what we been up to, we both agreed that when we started speaking again it was just as friends and that we would have to meet up for a laugh, but he recently told me hes got back together with his ex girl but its nothing serious to him anymore, i feel abit upset that they are together again but happy for me him at the same time.

Answer 1

definitely, Go FOR IT! of course its not bad. he sounds nice, you like each other, thats all that matters. give it a go, don't miss out on the chance, now that u hav it. go enjoy : )


-after the extra details you added - just dont be a booty call! or come across as easy! he should b available.
remeber if you r vunerable at the mo some guys will take avantage of that.

Answer 2

Hmmm, I would say go for it, BUT, you were 14 when you started chatting, and you have NEVER met, suggest web cams, so you can see if he is really who he says he is!
Or take a few mates with you, if you decide to meet!

Answer 3

These things nearly always end in tears.