2006-10-31 13:51:51 · 33 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a tremendous number of women who like guys who are ashholes. I think they equate that huge ego and bad attitude with strength, and equate kindness with weakness. Those are the stupid ones. If that's what you want, go for it. I prefer a woman that LIKES me, not one that wants a cave man.
2006-10-31 14:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by Old Cripple 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's the other way around. In order to get men to love you you must treat them like crap.
2006-10-31 13:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Marti M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A very old fashioned concept that (for some unknown reason), still works! I believe in treating everyone equally, either treat everyone like crap or treat them as you want to be treated! I choose the latter.
The Ol' Sasquatch Ü
2006-10-31 14:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, whoever told you that is all confused about the Frank Sinatra quote. Sinatra made a remark (I believe it was in the film "Pal Joey" and possibly at other times), "You treat a lady like a dame, and a dame like a lady." He never said, "Treat them all like dames."
But if you do either one of those things, it will mark you as a real jerk, which is probably not worth it--unless you're in an old movie and getting paid for it.
2006-10-31 14:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by Latrice T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may get more shallow, insecure women but eventually they will all leave you. It is better to have the complete love of a single woman that you treat like a princess.
2006-10-31 13:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are talkingabout "rockstar love", then you need to be a rockstar. If you are talking about "Joe schmo" love, then the issue you are touching upon is regarding reciprocity and appropriate interaction. When you treat a woman "well" as in holding the door, pushing in her chair, listening attentively and providing some sense of security, you are treating a woman as a gentleman should be expected. When you treat a woman "well" as in lavish gifts, sumptuous dinners out, shopping sprees and making yourself completely available at the detriment of your other concerns, you maybe guilty of providing too much to fast than is appropriate for the level of the relationship. If you give too much too fast, you may be regarded as a chump who should be treated as a source for gratification, not a potential longterm mate. When you mistep the cues in a relationship such as the example above, you lessen your value to a potential mate because you are valuing her involvement more than she is yours. So, in conclusion, you don't need to treat a woman like crap as you put it; you need to treat her as she treats you in terms of respect, loyalty, attention, and affection. If you put too strong of a vibe out to her too early in relationship, she could interpret that as you needing her more than she needs you and therin lies the making of many a doomed relationship.
2006-10-31 14:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Maz69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to attract women with serious emotional problems that will leave you with problems. Intelligent, emotionally confident women will not accept this sort of treatment. Remember the golden rule.? "Do unto others as you would like done unto you" . You have to decide what you are willing to settle for.
2006-10-31 14:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not a way to get women to love you....but it IS a way to get them to leave you. Treat women right, and with respect, and i'm sure you'll meet the one that will love you and treat you right.
2006-10-31 13:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by LibraT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but you should treat us like equals. Talk to us, listen to what we have to say, and respect us as women, but don't patronize us by treating us like delicate flowers or some such crap. We want to feel independent even in our relationships.
2006-10-31 13:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would not love any man that treats me like crap. He better treat me like his queen and I will give him the world.
2006-10-31 13:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋