My girl is still in contact with one of her ex's, she actually went to vegas with him two weeks into our relationship because it was already planned, had an abortion with another who she taunts by texting happy birthday on his birthday had another guy she found pictures of him cheating and it feels like Im dating her and all of these guys. How do I get through all of this bull.
2006-10-31 13:51:19 · 9 answers · asked by 1authority 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well... tell her to pack those bags and leave them at the door. It is not fair to put you through all that garbage. Now, don't get me wrong... we all have a certain amount of baggage...but it is important that we take lessons from our experiences and leave the rest behind. She sounds like she is on some sort of "power" trip with these other guys - reminding them of what they have "lost." You need to set your own boundaries with her. Tell her that you appreciate her experiences of life, but this is a new relationship and you expect her to give you 100 percent or nothing at all. If she respects you, she will stop this misery she is putting them and you through. Mind you, I don't think it is wrong for her to have guy friends... but she shouldn't be dragging her dirty laundry and old baggage out to play with. Tell her to deal with it, get over it, and get on with a more positive relationship with you! You deserve that much respect from anyone!!!
2006-10-31 14:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 15 and that i've got a three week previous daughter, I have been given pregnant at 14. i might have enjoyed if somebody did that to me, yet i'm able to be sure the way it could have been uncomfortable for her. yet a minimum of you recognize she will have the means to no longer be getting pregnant, yet you probably did intervene on their very own business enterprise. She seems to be effective with it, so i do no longer see lots of a topic. although, I in no way grew to become into somewhat that open with my relatives approximately intercourse, so that's a sprint different. I sounds as in case you're quite close, and interior the tip it appears that evidently as though she grew to become into appreciative. the tip effect is all that concerns, and that they the two seem content fabric with refraining from greater sexual intercourse. It doesnt count the form you have been raised, it is one's very own perspectives on the subject. i do no longer see lots of a topic with premarital family members as long because it is secure and the two events are prepared to settle for the outcomes and that's a healthful dating. yet definitely, 14 is merely too youthful to be captivating in sexual events and it grew to become into proper you convinvce her in any different case. it could have been greater useful which you would be able to talk for your self, regardless of the shown fact that it doesnt count lots now anyhow. i would not experience delicate for every person to avert on my relationships, yet i think it is for the greater useful if she isn't waiting for a toddler. month-to-month STD and being pregnant attempt? lol. Now, it somewhat is a sprint lots, quite if she's dozing totally with him. good success! ? ?, Elizabeth Lynn
2016-12-28 09:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out, leave her alone quick fast and in a hurry, why are you still dating her? This girl is a real live psycho case, she is really in need of attention and intensive psychological counseling. What are you thinking? Good luck and God bless
2006-10-31 13:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her. honestly, you don't deserve to be carrying all that weight that she has carried into your relationship. give her some time to settle all her baggages....and her life. she is in no condition to get into another relationship. if she has not settled it with her ex's, then what makes you think that she will settle with you. just think about that. she doesn't deserve you.
2006-10-31 13:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say it again!!! why put yourself in the middle??? tell her,, when she decides what and who she is going to date...Then maybe give you a call. Because right now you can't be bothered with all this silliness!!
2006-10-31 13:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes the self abuse. i suggest you not get wrapped up in it. if I was you i'd pack that baggage tight and return with no sender
2006-10-31 14:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her. She sounds like she is a big waste of time.
2006-10-31 13:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by Marti M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not for you to deal with. It's her baggage, she needs to deal with it.
2006-10-31 13:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by amandafofanda66 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it, not us. if she continues to be selfish and make you uncomfortable, then let her go.
2006-10-31 13:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by Rum_Punch_Girlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋