Back in grade school, my mom said the reason why boys teased girls, was because they like them. Well, does this still apply in highschool?? Guys that always tease and joke around with girls..do they like them? What about if they also are always trying to scare you by coming up behind you and grabbing you? Always poking your sides, hugging you, etc? Also, what if they told someone else you were hot? Does that mean anything?
I am 17 years old and a Senior in highschool, has this guy just not matured yet or what??
2006-10-31 13:46:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This boy has not yet learned social skills for his age group. His behavior is still at a grade school level. Furthermore, he is close enough to being an adult that he could be sited for simple assault. If you have asked him to stop, it is no longer funny. It is sexual harrasment.
2006-10-31 13:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys mature when it comes to attractive women they like... Yeah right.. ha ha ha ha ha.. Good one.
You got him hook, line and sinker. Anytime a guy can risk looking like an idiot in front of an attractive girl is only because he desires her undivided attention and wants to make sure he has made an impression. Maturity? Even gentleman in their 50's revert back to juvenile behavior when infatuated.
You can nip this thing in the bud. You can tell him you like him, and that he doesn't have to try so hard to get your attention. Or you can tell him that his actions is a total turn off. Either one is a start of behavior modification.
2006-10-31 14:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HI,
He like you but he don't seem to have the courage n guts enough to approach you, so he just try to mess around with u with the only reason he can speak to u.
Trust me i have experience that, but the only things hugging and poking ur sides seems abit too much, Well the truth is he like you but just keep you limits. sometimes this ppl try to take advantage by hugging and all.
2006-10-31 14:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by treesha_006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you're saying, he probably either likes you or thinks of you as a good friend. I'm not sure if he wants to be in a relationship with you, but he definately doesn't hate you.
2006-10-31 13:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he likes you, thats just a way for a guy who may be too shy to come out and tell you that he likes you too be able too express his like. Sometimes it may not always be the way you would like for it too be but he is in a weird way just trying too somehow let you know he likes you on a subconscious level. Try talking too him and just say "hey, if you like me just say so and we can date" this may scare the crap out of him but I promise after the scare is gone and he realizes he wont be rejected that he will approach you and ask you out. Fear of rejection is usually the cause of this behavior. Good Luck
2006-10-31 13:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by The Red Dragon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course he likes you. The question is, does he sincerely like you, or is he just trying to get into your pants? (No offense)
With this being said, think about the type of person he is and if he's the type to take advantage of someone.
2006-10-31 14:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's either 1. he's soft and can't come to grips with it, 2. he likes you, or 3. he's remarkably immature. Ask him this question yourself providing these as multiple choice answers, and you'll uncover the mystery yourself, as it were.
2006-10-31 13:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes he is proboaly trying to get your friendship first so he can build a relationship that continues in dating or they are just goofballs i am also a senior in high school if u like him go for it if u dont let keep on flirting with u
2006-10-31 13:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by emogirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teasing&joking may be signs of friendlyness.grabbing & hugging are but advantages the guy takes.saying u arehot..these guys have no feelingand respect for u they just fun fun at your expense
2006-10-31 13:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by max_bond2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he likes you, we never grow up, we still do the same thing all our lives, we dont know any different, men have not changed much since the time of cavemen, if he could club you over the head and drag you back to his cave he would
2006-10-31 13:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by chrissabolich 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋