Should I be mad?
Well this is a complicated question: This person (I will call that person Sam) I waited to see for weeks comes some place where I am, but it (Sam) is busy chatting with someone! Now since I am very anxious to see Sam I hurry up to them and this is what I say : Me: Hi Sam
Sam: Hi
Me: How are you
Sam : Good
And that's how short our conversation was, I decided to leave beacuse they looked very serious...well Sam didnt seem to happy to see me and NEVER came back to say anything. Sam was just busy talking and talking,...and after I looked and asked for Sam everywhere but Sam didnt seem to care
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Alrit if you dont think it is TOO clear, here is the summary:
I waited to see Sam for a week, finally today Sam came to where she has tons of friends. Sam comes and is busy talking to someone and looks like she is going to blow! Well I am too anxious to see her so I decide to go say hi! She doesnt say much and gives me an expressiion that I should probably go now! I leave. Sam never comes looking for me or anything, I even go around asking if anyone has seen her! And I never find her. She doesnt seem to care...she didnt even email me or anything!
2006-10-31 13:45:12 · 13 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
The reason Sam never came looking for you is probably because she was upset about whatever she and the other person were talking about. It sounds like she may have a lot going on in her life right now.
Just give her some time to work out her problems. Have you tried emailing or calling her? You might just send her a quick message and ask if everything is okay.
2006-10-31 14:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound harsh, but leave Sam alone. If she wants to talk to you she will, and it sounds like, right now, she doesn't. She may be having a bad day or bad week, or whatever, be really busy, or just so involved elsewhere she doesn't have time for a new person. It's nothing against you, you are, without doubt a perfectly worthy, interesting person, she's just not available to you right now. Don't keep hurting yourself, move on to other things and people. The more stuff you have going on yourself, the less you'll care about one other person!
2006-10-31 21:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about the sam start minding your buisness and talk to those who respect your feelings.... do your job properly and every body will be behind you....
do not be anxious about anytihng after all life is not only sam.... may be sam is just a page of your life as a book just turn around other pages to see what happens... keep going
there are many others like you who are wanting to see you just like you were running behind sam... so just stop this running business and start working.... after all the social gatherings and friendships are made ot make you happy and if that turns you down better avoid those...
2006-10-31 21:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by bobby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you like sam more than sam cares. Some times that happens.
Now just wait awhile, stay calm and wait, if you see sam act like ok hi sam. so that sam thinks you are not like giving attention, then sam can make a move
2006-10-31 21:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Wicked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sam seems to be selfish and stubborn when she around other people no i wouldn't be mad because sam will need you when no one wants to be bother with her. Don't look for her or email her at all now you know who your friend s are and sam ain't on the list!
2006-10-31 22:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about this person and move on you are a beautiful girl and don't need this staff and if you ignore SAM maybe he is going to start coming around if not find another person that takes care of you the way you should
2006-10-31 21:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by juanita2_2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her, it seems you might have an overactive imagination from the way you write. but ring him/her or email and simply ask whats going on. she/he might be in a time of need right now and simply hasnt either had the chance or doesnt want to get back to you. JUST ASK no biggy and then you will know whats going on
2006-10-31 21:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by trandru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don'y be mad, take the hint... Sam doesn't want to be bothered.
Sorry.
Good luck
2006-10-31 21:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by Len_NJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO; NO NEED TO BE MAD; SAM DOESNT FEEL ABOUT YOU AS YOU FEEL FOR HER; JUST TRY HARDER TO LET HER KNOW YOU ARE INTERESTED
2006-10-31 21:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by trishaaa1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd let that one go...doesn't sound like they are interested in being friends with you and basically slighted you.
2006-10-31 21:54:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋