okay. i have liked this girl for about four years. and she is always flirting with me. when i asked her out she said she would if she broke up with her bf. she has recently broken up with him. and ....well...we arent going out. i like this girl from the depths of my heart and i would like her to see that it is more than a physical thing. should i try to persue her? and if so, how should i go about persuing?
2006-10-31 13:42:30 · 15 answers · asked by dark_lord_zephyr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If u really like this girl, then hang out with her just as a friend. and gain her trust that u aint just after trying to get some. basically let her know that u are worth waiting for.
2006-10-31 13:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by Nemo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI,
Don't waste your time, four years have past....... Approach her , bring her out and make her happy as she just broke up. Dont straight jump to conclusion, 1st move is help her with her problem.... Be there when she needs you. Listen to her, even if she is grumbling or irratating, just listen to her.
One more things don't try to be to cheap and always being there, try to be a bit expensive...... Girls love somethings which is hard to get......
In this she will be more fond to you.....
2006-10-31 13:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by treesha_006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's had a bit of time to get over her bf, then ask her out again...start with something simple like an afternoon date...if things go well, then branch out from there...
Good luck!
2006-10-31 13:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, but u don't need to verbally try to persure her ( we don't like that) that u like her from the depth of your heart. As the relationship goes on she will see that for herself( if she said yes). GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-31 13:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by ~Lady scorpio~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, to me, i seen this happen, but it always changes.
the girl see you and tells you somthing that she thinks that will never happen but it does. now she feels retarted because she knows that you know that she is broken up. She doesn't like you but told u an oppertunity that make u look forward too because she thinks that she will never break up with the person that she is with. (confusing yes. i know read is if you are explaining something to your friend for the 100th times)
summary, go for it...my guess, she will not take u....give me 10pt for best answer if right.
2006-10-31 13:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by A wondering Person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the dude broke up with her say i am srry thing didnt work and she thinks u r really nice and say hey do u want to catch a movie or something like that and see what she says
2006-10-31 13:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time, don't pounce on her now that she is newly single. She needs some airing out time. If you act too soon you will be a rebound fling and those don't last.
2006-10-31 13:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say give her some time to get over the break up of her last bf. if you rush her into a relationship u could end up being her rebound
2006-10-31 13:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should maybe try once but not too strong because we don't like it if someone comes on too strong so just take it slow. Good Luck
2006-10-31 13:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.Dennis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her to go to a movie with you and take it from there.
2006-10-31 13:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋